Well me and my girlfriend have been having sex for about 9-10 months now. and when we first started having sex we was basically like rabbits doing it when ever we could basically we was like having sex 3-5times a day. but now i just want to have sex once maybe if shes lucky twice. and after a session she always seems to want more but i cant give so i really feel im letting her down. is there anything i could do to Increase maybe by one more session a day.
Thu, 01/11/2007 - 03:29
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Is there somethink wrong with me??
instead of sex try oral on her if you cant perform another time for her. or tell her that she is asking too much of you
first u shld try to have some oral and try to make her orgasm while fingering and then u shld do the intercourse with ur penis as it is very common for female to have multiple orgasm and now you are finding it difficult to have 2-3 sessions ...if this also doesn't help u then u shld have a talk with her about this ....
You can also try improving the quality of your love making by making sure you have plenty of cuddle, snuggle, and romance as part of what you are doing. Many a woman will tell you it's not all about the destination, rather, the journey that is important.
My undestanding is that men need at least a 15 to 20 min.break in between orgasms. During this down time, you could take advantage of it by touching her, caressing her breast, legs and any other place that you can reach, so she will be ready again when you are. Are you taking that time?