I have had sex several times and it still hurts me, and i talked to my mom about it and she said it hurt for her up until she had me (I am an only child) This was a period of about 10 years. She said it made huge difference if she was in "the mood" or not... hope this helps some girls... Tension has a lot to do with it, if you relax, it will be better! (like that is possible, haha)

First, go to a doctor just to make sure there is nothing wrong with you.

Second, if you go here, here, and here, and read over my responses you will see that it does hurt for some even after the first time. You can also try some of the tips I've given other people. I figured nothing would help me and I was really on the verge of giving up and just attempting to deal with the pain. But I found something that worked and I like to pass that info along in hopes that it might help someone else.