There are a few cases in which a woman's vagina is either narrow or not very compliant, I suppose these can be classified as "too tight". Then if a man happens to have a penis of large circumference this could make a normal vagina feel "tight".

If he can insert two fingers comfortably then I'd say you are "normal".

i think my girlfriend is v.tight. But taking time with foreplay doesnt give us any problems, otherwise we just slowly ease into it! I personally dont get annoyed, if anything i like the somewhat ego boost :)

Their has been a few times when it just wasn't going to work because she was too 'tight'. But, I dont think its necessarily 'tight', more that they were a bit inexperianced and couldn't relax themself, aswell as not being especially wet. Which does tend to make things hard.

What's wrong with 15-20 minutes?

Take away the sex for a week or two and see if he complains again!

STOP IT!

Like I said in your other post, well one of them, you worry far too much.
I've had two kids and am much older than you and I'm tight too - so doesn't mean a thing.

CHILL.

> so he usualy only lasts about 15-20 min

Many guys would like intercourse to last and last and last for an hour or more. The sensations from all this stroking, thrusting, "BANGING" just give them a high like a "fix". The trouble with this is a lot of women become BORED, sore, and, tired after about ten minutes. So, what is a guy, a couple, to do? n.e.g.o.t.i.a.t.e! There is nothing wrong with having a long extended leisurely romp in the hay--just give intercourse a break and return to it. One way to do this is for you and/or him, to enjoy multiple orgasms, each within those ten minutes instead of holding the one off forever. The recovery (refractory) period in between any two of his orgasms should be filled with lots of making out (Necking, Petting, Heavy Petting) used to keep things going until he is ready again. If you are able to enjoy multiple orgasms then fit them in between his.

So he usually lasts about 15-20 minutes. Geez! He is absolutely within the range of normal. If he could only last a minute then I'd say there is a problem to be dealt with. Please rethink this and work up a better "script" that gives each of you more of what you want.

Also, if he is operating under the misguided misconception that the way to an orgasm is from lots and Lots and LOTS and LOTS of stroking, he is going about this all backwards. This is why we fool around and make out for a long long time if desired. Intercourse should begin when you invite him and after he has been brought to the peak of his arousal from all the making out.

A one who totally ruins a man's skill at foreplay, let me say that once the date has been made, I spend the intervening time anticipating the event.
I plan what I'm going to wear. I consider what I'm going to do. I think of what he might do and so on.

So by the time the date rolls around - I am sooo ready!

And, if he wants to survive the experience, he had better be too!!

15-20 minutes is fine for an appetizer but then I'd be expecting some SERIOUS sex after that.

i've been told by multiple partners that i am unnaturally tight, and my current boyfriend calls it a double edged sword because though it feels amazing for him, i get sore soooooo easily and it really hurts to do it more than once, at least for the first minute or so. but i still consider it a gift.

Please stop! The idea that you get looser and looser - PFFT! Do guys get bigger the more sex they have? No. Well, face it - the only thing that MIGHT loosen a woman is having children via vaginal delivery and even then it is just the pelvic bones and those muscles that loosen not the vagina. If a guy complains she's 'too loose' then she's entitled to complain that he's just 'too damn small'.

it depends how horny you are and keen to do it, the girl i was seeing was very wet when we hadnt done it for a little while and not so wet if we did it alot
yeah the guy has something to do with it
there is all different things which make a female very wet, just have to learn what she likes

My wife is tight, very tight. I attribute that to some of my control issues. For her it's as much t6he way she is built as it is doing Kegels. Her OB/GYN has told her she might have trouble giving birth because she is smaller than normal in that area. I've tried to use my fingers to loosen her up a bit before entering and literally can't get two fingers in pas the second knuckle.

I wouldn't say I complain about it. It feels amazing to be inside her and I think my issues are partly physical, mostly mental. One thing I've become very aware of in my quest to fix my problem is that the position you choose has a major effect. We seem to like the most vigorous, sensitive, and therefore pleasurable positions but they all increase the friction, tightness, and lack of control. Even though I like doggie style for instance, I'm trying to stay away from it until my mental perspective is better. For now missionary and cowgirl will be our bread and butter, eventually we'll go back to the stuff we like better. When I talk about lack of control I'm looking at 1-2 minutes, not 15-20. From my perspective your BF needs to just enjoy what he's got. But that's just me.

3-5 is a good day for me lately. Don't know what happened, I used to be able to last much longer. Something is broken in my head, now I just need to figure out how to fix it!

There's no such thing as too tight as long as you are wet enough to let him get to full speed. If you aren't then that's no good and you need lube. But no you can't be too tight. The tighter the better.

Think for minute, people, yes you can be. But not in the way you're thinking. Think pelvic bones instead. It is rare - very rare - but we did run across one woman who was just not built for any man larger than a 'pencil dick'. It wasn't a good evening. We then met another woman who said she was but in that case it was tension within her marriage and not us. She may have said she was happy but her body told us she lied. Another not so good evening.

Whether the tightness is in her body or in her brain - yes, you can be 'too tight'.

It is often a common 'excuse' for men who become overwhelmed by sensation and think they orgasm too quickly, but that's another thread.

this is an interesting question. i wondered the same thing about myself when i first lost my virginity. it was unusual because when i lost it it wasn't the first attempt. the guy i did it with had tried a few times before but claimed i was so tight he couldn't push it in. my current boyfriend is now the second person i've had sex with and had some trouble but it wasn't as bad. the key difference was the first guy didn't try to get me wet like my boyfriend did. if you're wet enough it makes a world of difference.