[QUOTE=Roywyn;262919][COLOR="blue">hey there! i was giving my boyfriend a helping hand the other day and while getting up close and personal i knowticed that there were a couple of dangly bits missing...[/COLOR] :s

I gather from your story that this was the first time you had seen him (partially) nude, correct? Have you talked to him about what you discovered about him? If not, I suggest bringing up the subject, matter-of-factly.

so i used my hand to stroke that area and i could only feel two very very small lumps about O <-- that big. like there isnt even a sack.

The size of the adult male testes can and sometimes do vary in size. I once encountered a man with two the size of almonds! Are you saying that what you felt is only the size of the capital letter "O"? No scrotum?

I am wondering if he was in an accident or if he had a medical problem that required the removal of all these pieces-parts. Where did you feel the two small lumps in relation to his penis?

[COLOR="blue">i was so confsed but he got pleasure from the touch at least and even asked me if i liked playing with his balls, i didnt want to upset him by asking where they were or anything like that so i just left it at that, but now im very confused, should i be worried?[/COLOR]

Talk to him about this. By him asking the question, he is probably open to discussing the matter. Should you be worried? Not until you have some answers and not unless he cannot have children and you do.
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i know he used to work in a meat prossesing plant that delt with harsh chemicals, and that in fact he is going though treatment for brain swelling caused by said chemicals, but could they have aused that? because im fairly sure that it is not normal having such small testicles. how do i broach the subject with him? should i be worried? would this make him sterile?[/COLOR] o.0 :eek:[/QUOTE]

Do a Google/Ask search on "orchidometer". This is a device that measures testicle size, etc.

Even if you find an orchidometer, you will not want to pay that price and you would have no idea how to use it. Your b/f needs a consult with a highly specialized urologist. He starts with whomever is treating him for the brain swelling with the simple question, "Can this affect my genitals." Then let the experts take over. I would have no idea what to do.

Oh! I agree with Brandye. I omitted the reason for mentioning the orchidometer. I brought it up to show that testicle size does vary considerably.

I am wondering if the lack of a scrotum and what seem like undeveloped testis is how he was born. Is he taking testosterone?

How long have the two of you been in this relationship?
Do the two of you have any serious discussions about other aspects of life, love, romance, objectives, politics, etc.?
I can understand that if the relationship is fairly new and there has not been a lot of time to develop trust and emotional intimacy that this might not be the time to talk to him about his physical condition. At some point the maturity of the relationship will be at a point where the two of you can talk about anything. If it never reaches this point then all you will be is friends--or if the relationship continues, living on false hopes and dreams, not reality.