I'd appreciate some advice from some real live men (and women) about this. I am always looking for a way to spice up our sex life. I'm fairly experienced, sexually, but one thing I am never clear about is testicle stimulation.
1. Do all men like it?
2. What exactly feels good? Please share techniques! I'm not a prude and would love details to help me out. I want to know what feels good with hands and mouth.
Thanks.


I have never met a man who did not enjoy a tongue bath of his balls - gently and lightly. Then you work your way up the bottom of the shaft with the butterfly and then use your imagination. The two most sensitive spots seem to be where the shaft meets the scrotum and at the corona. Just the tongue tip as you do the butterfly.
Thanks for the quick reply. I feel really inexperienced, but please explain corona and butterfly to me. Those are terms I have not heard before.
cupping and fondling the scrotum while sucking or bobbing your head up and down on the penis is an awesome feeling. just make sure you don't squeeze hard or anything, we're extremely sensitive there. too much pressure could cause pain that would last the rest of the night and kill the mood completely :eek: (that's the face i'd make if my balls got squeezed) .
> we're extremely sensitive there. too much pressure could cause pain that would last the rest of the night and kill the mood completely (that's the face i'd make if my balls got squeezed) .
There are two areas of the male anatomy that when stimulated interact positively with what we are experiencing from other caresses. In other words, stimulating one or both of these places greatly intensifies the sensations derived from other caresses.
The first is one or the other testicle; the second is the Prostate gland. It has often been said that there is a fine line between pain and pleasure, so, with that in mind let me offer an alternate viewpoint concerning the squeezing of a testicle. I tend to agree that most males would be somewhat squeemish about having one or both testicles hit or squeezed very hard, however, there is a middle ground. The testicles are quite sensitive to impact and much less to to pressure.
If one is gently squeezed when the man is in a normal state and not aroused it will cause an annoying little ache. Do the same thing when he is very aroused and approaching an orgasm and this same ache will be interpreted as very pleasurable and will actually enhance or augment the sensations we might be experiences from other forms of caresses at the same time. There is another benefit for doing this: if the man is having trouble triggering an orgasm that is being illusive such as the second or third one in a multiple string, then that same ache will more often than not trigger the orgasm. These are two pretty good reasons for putting up with a small ache.
What you do is have your girlfriend gently squeeze one with slowly increasing pressure until you arrive at this this point. She should note how much pressure is being applied so that when she does this when you are being sexually aroused and stimulated in other ways, that same annoyance will be actually be pleasurable (only at this time) and work as described, above.
The Prostate can be massaged and although not painful, the resulting sensations are equally as intense and pleasurable abd will work in the same way in that they too will intensify the sensations from other caresses. The nice part about this is that stimulating the anus inside and out works just as well for women as men.
Vagabond is a step or two beyond what I was describing. The corona is the rim around the head where the glans join the shaft of the penis. Butterfly is flicking the tongue very rapidly and very lightly side to side.
As you do tongue baths you will learn how much more pressure is OK but take it gently first. A thing I have learned over the years is "do not back up." once the scrotum is well bathed and you progress, keep advancing. It builds the tension better. Once in your mouth, keep it there or switch rapidly, very rapidly, into your vagina.
My man loves his balls stimulated. While giving a BJ, I get my hand really wet, too, and rub his balls. Sometimes I use the palm of my hand and sometimes I use my fingertips. He really likes it when I start at the base of his balls and rub them lightly, then move my hand all the way up his cock in a swirling motion.