I've only been with a few guys and the lastest guy im with is the first to ask me what I want him to do to me. So it was a surprise to me cause no other guy has asked me that and I didn't know what to say.
And I'm not very experienced in general and I had no idea what to say and then I started getting really nervous.
I'm also timid and shy when it comes to sex just because I'm not experienced and let's just say he's been around the block quite enough.
I don't know waht to do
Here's a place to begin. It's good reading if I do say so myself.
HELP! S/He is more EXPERIENCED! To which I say:
Get a copy of The Joy of Sex and see what ideas turn you on.
Don't be shy, if he is that experienced he will soon find the right spot for you, just let him know when he has, but I am sure your reaction to him hitting the "spot" will let him know
Now that you have had some time to think about it, next time it should be easier to say something for him to do. Like it has been mentioned, doing some reading and study should help. If not you should think about this and come up with something you would like him to try. He is just trying to make sure you are enjoying the sex. Guys don't automatically know what works for each girl since there are things which work for some girls and others don't like it. This is a great chance to work with your boyfriend and to also help you discover what works for you. You could just start with asking him to finger you and ask him to follow your instructions. Just talk to him as he does his thing and when he hits a good spot, tell him to stay there etc.
Show if you are too shy to talk!
Or try writing him a sexy story and send him - of course you'd describe what you like him to do. That could also work as a major turn-on (just imagine, he opens his inbox at work - and there is a file from you, named let's say "important file". He opens and tehre is a sexy sexy story his girlfriend wrote! I bet he'd leave the job early and do all the described things...)
Another possible solution - if you know any foreign language that he doesn't talk, write some easy sentences for him ,give a dictionary and let him translate. It takes time, so it's not so scary and will also be a turn on for him to try to find out what you mean.