I have a question about oral sex. Now, I haven't gotten it yet, but I think it's going to hapen soon, as I'm starting to get real serious with my girl. I've always wondered, should I tell her I'm about to come when she's giving me head or does it not matter?
Sun, 07/10/2005 - 21:15
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Tell her I'm going to come during oral?
tell her, or at least ask if she wants to be told. It doesn't really bother me eitherway but thats because I have no problems swallowing... if she is new to this too, she may not appreciate a mouthful of spunk, the taste can be a bit... unpleasent... the first few times
my advice is do tell her. esp if ur new to this with ur current gf. she wud i appreciate. i know i was ..cuz he was my first bf that i got serious with. u cud just ask her if she wnts to be told n she will tell u. the key is communication. the more you do it with her, the more she'll learn about you and so she will come (no pun intended) to know when you're near orgasm.
hope this helps
uncreativename
My guy always tells me when he's fixing to come. He tells me because either a) he doesn't want to just yet cause we're fixing to do it or b) because we're in a place like his car and so he tells me he's going to come so I keep going and don't pull away so it doesn't go everywhere and we have to clean up a mess.
So personally, I appreciate it so I don't have to clean up a mess or I don't have to start all over again and get a tired jaw out of it.
With experience, it is pretty clear to women when it is about to happen and there are things we can do to prepare ourselves. Most of us were surprised the first few times and ended up gagging and hacking and thinking we had been poisoned.
I would imagine that she would be appreciative. And if she wants to know what to look for, and lookout for, thereare some good ideas posted here or I would be happy to give her some ideas.