[QUOTE=Quote (cajdi2004 @ Dec. 17 2004,05:50)]when my wife came home from being out of town last week, she took the red eye back and got home during the day while i was at work.  I left a dozen roses for her on the table in our bedroom with a note telling her that i missed her and instructing her to look under her pillow.  under her pillow she found a piece of lingerie with another note sending her to another spot in the room.  each spot had another piece of lingerie hidden away with a note telling her what to do (or what i would do).  by the time she got to the end she was so hot she was dripping wet until i came home hours later.  and i never once had to touch her!!!!!

i'm still not sure how many times she masturbated that afternoon untill i got home, but we had incredible sex that night.  not just from being apart for a week, but because of the state she was in from being teased.  [/QUOTE]
now that is a definite mind and body tease. lucky woman.

Teasing 101
Keep in mind every girl likes something different but this has worked for me numerous times. first sneak up behind her and brush her hair to the side and start to kiss/nibble on her neck whil whispering how good she looks today(or something to that affect). While behind her remove shirt/blouse and play with breast whle they are still in braw and countinue nibbling on neck and shoulders. go to frontside of girl and kiss the exposed cleavage. remove braw and play with whle breast not just nipple(make smaller and smaller circles with fingers or tounge until you hit nipple). spend sme time with breast but eventually slowly lick down her stomach to her underwear(which are still on). Lick over them like you are eating her out. Mention that she is very sexy and you cant believe how bad she is turning you on by not movein her underwear for you to get access. when she pulls them to the side do not eat her out but do figure 8s with your tounge over her whole genetalia(most men think that the clit is the only sensitive area but they ill fing out differently). from here on out u are onyour own.

when my wife came home from being out of town last week, she took the red eye back and got home during the day while i was at work. I left a dozen roses for her on the table in our bedroom with a note telling her that i missed her and instructing her to look under her pillow. under her pillow she found a piece of lingerie with another note sending her to another spot in the room. each spot had another piece of lingerie hidden away with a note telling her what to do (or what i would do). by the time she got to the end she was so hot she was dripping wet until i came home hours later. and i never once had to touch her!!!!!

i'm still not sure how many times she masturbated that afternoon untill i got home, but we had incredible sex that night. not just from being apart for a week, but because of the state she was in from being teased.

When you're ready to take it to the next level, learn to tease her mind even as you touch her... remember that's where a major portion of this sex stuff happens.

you blew your load in your gf's hair! My gf would be so mad...lol

I'm not really into feet, or a guy licking them, but we're all different.

Teasing is best when you really want someone, and they won't give it to you. Like, you start to go down on her, just kiss it a little bit, and then come back up. Kiss her all over, touch her really soft... Just give her a taste of what she can have. Make her wait, get her going for a while first. I guarantee she will reach orgasm faster if you tease her a little first.

Just don't be mean about it. Dont make her wait too long, or she might just get frustrated. But if you want to get her going, I would say tease her first :]

The above mentioned method does work, but I can have sex with my girl like that every night. I talk to my girl a lot, we tell each other what we like. If I kinda talk dirty to her it makes her want sex real bad, foreplay is the key. I'll kiss her all over her body, that makes her want it real bad because she is waiting for me to hit all the spots she likes to be kissed in, and she starts to want it real bad and has to wait for me to finish with her body. Other times I'll whisper in her ear what I want to do to her, that works real well too, the longer story you can make the better. Other times I'll just lightly run my lips and hands all over her, and she is waiting for me to kiss her so that kills her, there are just a whole bunch of things. The way I think to do it isn't necessarily to see how long you can go without sex, but to get her going and just prolong the foreplay as much as you can, make her think you are gonna start having sex and then don't, just keep making out. Jump ahead real fast and then slow way down again.

I have actually been kind of experimenting with the whole teasing bit lately myself, my friend. The last two times (including tonight) that my g/f have been sexual, I've tried my best attempts to tease her, not only the night of but over a period of time. What I mean by that is this.

Since December 4th, I thought I'd experiment to see how girls react to a period of time where there is no sexual activity. BEing a guy, I know that guys who go through a period of time without having sex or being sexual, find it very hard to keep sex off the mind, and as happened tonight (after I had not jerked off for just a mere 6 days)...when sexual activity does happen, it's so much more intense. My g/f and I were literally ripping our clothes off, in the most intense sexual activity yet.

Since Dec. 4th I had decided to not be sexual with my girl for as long as I could. I figured, the longest time I'd try to go for would be a month, to see if girls react and long for it as much as us guy's would after a period of refraining from doing anything. Tonight it had only been 9 days since Dec 4th (which was the last time she and I were sexual), and as I said, she wanted me bad and literally, uncharacteristically, shoved my head down to her pussy as soon as I asked what she wanted...and was so eager to give me a blowjob and get her clothes off. So as I'm learning, if you go for a time period without showing that sex is on your brain, after a couple weeks or so or however long you choose, they want it bad. This is what I mean by teasing them before just the night of. I truly believe that this is a technique to kind of spice things up a bit.

Most of the time, your girl knows that being a guy you're thinking about sex constantly. So I figured that reversing the roles would be an interesting control factor. Sometimes, when us guys are in the mood, the girl might not want to and we might hear the "not tonight" just "save it for another time" response. Instead of getting frustrated...just reverse the role. What you need to do is to either figure out a length of time, (or just see how long you can go before she wants to jump you, as I found that a month of abstinence only lasted 9 days), that you can seem to be disinterested in sex. You almost have to become like your girl in that regard, where sex isn't in constant conversation...and just kinda do what they do. Pretend that you don't need it..even if you do.

Another key element, that has been hard for me but worth it...is to not give in in this phase of no-sex. It's extremely difficult, but don't give in to easy temptation..say for instance, it's only the second or third day of your quest, and she's throwing out hints that maybe she wants something to happen...resist that temptation b/c that's what's gonna give her that buildup to want it even more. Don't be rude about not doing stuff with her, just act like "hey, let's go do this"...act like it's not on your mind, as sometimes girls do. Yeah, you're gonna want it really badly, but it's worth it for you to both have that built up sexual tension.

This is the second time I've tried this method, and I'll tell you it has worked like a charm. Tonight was amazing, b/c she wanted it so badly that like I said, I saw the wild side of her, the "give it to me now...NOW!" side..strong sexually aggresive side.
I'm not selling anything, but am just throwing this method out as a suggestion. With a busy work schedule and the holidays and her sister coming down from California, I'm gonna see how long we can go without being sexual starting tomorrow the 14th. My guess is the next time we do stuff will be the 4th of January when her sister goes back home. Yeah, jerk off in the meantime so you're not dying to cum, but about a week or so before you want it to or think it'll happen, stop jerking off and let your cum load build up...as I did, and exploded all in her hair, with a few additional 3 foot shots..."it's everywhere", she said.
So if you all want more advice on this method, email me at
[email="suckmytoes05@yahoo.com...or">suckmytoes05@yahoo.com...or[/email] if you want any other questions answer, email me or post here on this great message board. I also know alot about how to increase your semen load (no I'm not selling any products, I just read about it alot online and have tried methods and herbs that have definitely helped.)

As for the night of, continue to use this "sex isn't on the brain" method, and then start teasing her using some methods that she might use on you, like the casual brush up against her boobs, or "whoops, I touched your vag" method. Look her deep in her eyes, and casually stroke her inner thigh, then suddenly stop and start making conversation or something...more of this, "yeah it could happen, but maybe not" type deal. This really does work, trust me. Try it out and post your results in this thread.

Also, if you guys could all help me out with some advice in my topic titled "Orgasm Advice" that I posted a efw days ago, that'd be very much appreciated. I am in desperate need of help with that topic!!!! Thanks, and I hope I helped!

Keith

Ps any ways I can make my girl comfortable about sucking her toes when being sexual? (she knows I like her feet and that they're a turn on...she doesnt hate it, but thinks it's a tiny bit weird but could possibly be open to it, as she's very accepting and I have kissed her feet and nibbled her toes before. Thanks!)