When me and my girlfriend are making out and things start to get heated up I usually place my hand on her legs, caressing, and rubbing slowly; slowly progressing toward the crotch area. I like to sorta tease her, making her wait like a three steps forward two steps back thing;) . But she usually wants to rush it by attempting to force my hand to GET there. I just want to make her so aroused that when I move in with my hand, the feeling is so much more intensified. I believe that I’m not doing anything wrong by doing this, but I saw in another post to "go with the flow". But I’ve observed when I tease her, "3 steps forward & 2 steps back" her orgasms are more intense and quicker after contact than if I moved straight in. But I’ve also noticed at times a tad bit of frustration, but she’s still pleased after all! What are your opinions or experiences about it?
Tue, 09/05/2006 - 19:44
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Tease or Give Her What She Wants?
i think teasing is good! but not too much. if shes movin ur hand for a while, she is highly aroused. i think u should do what she wants then...i wouldn't be surprised if she gets frustrated! i would too!
so basically what im sayin is, when shes movin ur hand, don't carry on what ur doin, do what she wants!
You are doing such a good job teasing that she is losing control... That is exactly what you want!
Me, I would want to investigate whether she thinks it's fun to be tied down to surrender control to your pace and get teased even more... maybe that sort of thing is not your bag but it is really hot IMO.
May not want to tease her every time. The slow buildup is good, but it might be nice to just jump in and go for it so she gets what she wants.