My boyfriend has tantric orgasms...or something like that. He's not trying to do it on purpose. He says that he feels like he comes, but he doesn't ejaculate and doesn't lose his erection. Sometimes we'll keep it up for a long time and he feels like he's having multiple orgasms. One time he had three. I finally stopped because I was tired...and he was actually sore. He was still hard.
I'm worried that he has some kind of medical problem, if he's not releasing semen. Or I'm worried that I'm not satisfying him. His exes were really kinky and I'm a lot less so.
If he says he's happy then believe him...as long as you are happy with yours, then he's in charge of being happy with his!!
He *says* it feels good...It's not like he complains after sex about not ejaculating. I think he's just worried that it's not healthy for him. It also might become a problem when we actually *do* want to have kids (though that's years in the future). He says he can ejaculate when he masturbates, but hasn't been able to ejaculate from blow jobs, except for once in high school in a public theater, and once while drunk. I don't know if he ejaculates during intercourse or not. There's never a lot of semen in the condom. He says that he doesn't produce a lot of semen, even when he does masturbates.
It doesn't really effect our sex life because we do get each other off. I'm just kind of concerned that there might be something wrong.