I don't know, is he saying anything worthwhile? If so, like what?
If half the time you know what to say in reply, then why not do it if they are positive and encouraging or enthusiastic? What sorts of things does he say that you do not know how to respond to the other half of the time?
I knew a couple in which the man would verbally express his love for his wife yet she would never say "I love you, too" or "I love you" in response or just initiate it to him on her own. They seemed fairly happy as a couple yet this one thing tore at this man's soul for years. So, if he is telling you of his love for you during love making and you do not respond, then I think you need to consider saying something in response.
How about yes, no, or a little to the left please haha. You could go even further and say somthing off the wall which I'm sure he would enjoy if hes talking to you in that way.
Guess it depends on the context of how he is saying it. If its a question then it sounds like to me hes trying to learn what you like, so tell, guide, or show him. He wouldn't be asking if didn't want to know. If its a statement, to me, it would be more like dirty talk.
Personally I prefer to be told, guided, or shown rather than fumbling around, with a partner until I learn their preferences.
yeah u tell him that u like it, or if u dont then u should let him know what u do like. say something like "i like it harder/slower". not responding to him could be a turn off lol. :p
Well, I'm not sure. We've been together a while so this is definately new. Like he says it like not angry, but with force, "you like that!?!?!!" I dont know how to respond, saying "yes" doesnt seem like its appropriate, i try to make more sound maybe, but still. It sounds like he wants recognition for something. He also demands now that I be on top, if I'm lucky then he'll want to finish but for the most part its just me doing all the work.... overeggagerating.
I don't know, is he saying anything worthwhile? If so, like what?
If half the time you know what to say in reply, then why not do it if they are positive and encouraging or enthusiastic? What sorts of things does he say that you do not know how to respond to the other half of the time?
I knew a couple in which the man would verbally express his love for his wife yet she would never say "I love you, too" or "I love you" in response or just initiate it to him on her own. They seemed fairly happy as a couple yet this one thing tore at this man's soul for years. So, if he is telling you of his love for you during love making and you do not respond, then I think you need to consider saying something in response.
It's not necessarily "I love you" It's more like "You like that?" kind of stuff. what do you say to that?
How about yes, no, or a little to the left please haha. You could go even further and say somthing off the wall which I'm sure he would enjoy if hes talking to you in that way.
Guess it depends on the context of how he is saying it. If its a question then it sounds like to me hes trying to learn what you like, so tell, guide, or show him. He wouldn't be asking if didn't want to know. If its a statement, to me, it would be more like dirty talk.
Personally I prefer to be told, guided, or shown rather than fumbling around, with a partner until I learn their preferences.
It sounds like she is trying to find out what pleases you. If so, then respond honestly to her questions. Sounds like a positive thing to me.
yeah u tell him that u like it, or if u dont then u should let him know what u do like. say something like "i like it harder/slower". not responding to him could be a turn off lol. :p
i like talking during sex and saying the craziest things ever!
just too see the guys response, and how long it takes for him to answer
Well, I'm not sure. We've been together a while so this is definately new. Like he says it like not angry, but with force, "you like that!?!?!!" I dont know how to respond, saying "yes" doesnt seem like its appropriate, i try to make more sound maybe, but still. It sounds like he wants recognition for something. He also demands now that I be on top, if I'm lucky then he'll want to finish but for the most part its just me doing all the work.... overeggagerating.
But the good news is he enjoys it :)