I was just curious... I found that my guy friends become way too interested when we all talk about porn. I know more females are into porn, light bondage, and other things then they openly admit. I understand the whole "mystique" I just don't see a point.. if you are into something, discuss it. I am curious from the fellas... does it turn you on more to have a female tell you things she is interested in... or for you to find out by experiencing it?
Sun, 06/01/2003 - 03:16
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Talking about sex
It's certainly good to learn by experience. But... I personally like when my partner tells me what she likes - before, during, or after a session. By her being open and discussing it, I'm able to better fulfill her desires!
[QUOTE=Quote (Vixen916 @ May 31 2003,20:16)]I am curious from the fellas... does it turn you on more to have a female tell you things she is interested in... or for you to find out by experiencing it?[/QUOTE]
It is not only a turn-on, it is also very helpful to be able to please her better.
Communication is (almost) everything ...
Speaking of communication, your heading is an interesting way to get people here; I'm not sure what it has to do with your post though ...
LOL. I see your point. I guess I lightly jumped over that.. but I am one who is into porn, light bondage (as I said at first) and I like being tied up, etc. I just worded around it and then jumped into my question without specifically asking if the men like to be told "hey honey, handcuff me to the bed." Or, if they would rather have the female pull the handcuffs out.. There, I hope my being more specific makes the topic title fall into what I meant
"I found that my guy friends become way too interested when we all talk about porn. I know more females are into porn, light bondage, and other things then they openly admit. I understand the whole "mystique" I just don't see a point.. if you are into something, discuss it. I am curious from the fellas..."
Personally, I really appreciate knowing what my partner wants.
It is as frustrating suspecting your partner wants something that they won't tell you about, as it is is to want something and not get it yourself. This is especially important if that something is a little unusual, like bondage
- otherwise how will your partner ever guess? Show your partner, hint or just plain tell them - whichever works!
I would hope that all partners want to please, they just need to know what it is that their partner wants.
I know I already said it (but it's worth repeating) ... communication is so important.
YEA I DEFINETLY RATHER MY GIRL TELLING ME WHAT SHE LIKES AND WHAT INTREST HER. WE ALWAYS HAVE LONG CONVERSATIONS ABOUT THAT SORT OF THING AND I ALWAYS TELL HER NOT TO HOLD BACK AND TELL ME ALL. THAT IMPROVES OUR EXPERIENCE TOGETHER. IT SUCKS TRYING TO FIND OUT ON YOUR OWN AND WONDERING AND DOUBTING... U KNOW
well im not sure if this applies to your question but ive been told by my b/f about a conversation he had w/ some of his guy friends and apparently most guys aren't able to take a hint so to speak. like if i make subtle hints or actions that i want to get frisky they just go over his head. even red light flashing hints seems to pass them by. so my b/f told me if you want something you have to tell me plain outright no tip toeing around it. lol i guess just girls are more aware of things than guys... not all guys.. just some