Hello,

This girl and I have been fooling around with each other the last month or two. Its become a trend that I end up staying at her dorm or she comes back to my place every weekend. She an amazing girl thats not only beautiful but fun to be around. We have not had intercourse but have pretty much done everything else. A while back while on the couch she was stradling me while we were making out. Where out of nowhere she ask what I wanted to do to her and to be completely honest I didnt know what to say. I didnt know if she wanted me to talk dirty to her; if she was trying to figure out if I just wanted in her pants. And if she did want me to talk dirty to her I was kinda worried about how dirty to go without being offensive. "I want to hold you down, spread your legs and give it to you" something I dont know if she wants me to talk like that or what. Shes not a virgin and has really only had one boyfriend that she was with for 5 years (that ended about 2 years ago). Even when I have fingered her she wont let me take off her underwear.

any opinions or thoughts would be greatly appreciated