So, me and my girlfriend have been going out for about a year. We make out frequently, but that's about it. I was wondering what I should do to try and take the next step (fingering, oral, but not sex just yet). I'm afraid that if I ask her, she'll get offended or angry, and same thing as just with trying to do it spontaniously. She's not prude, but there are a lot of girls that just aren't going much further than we have. Thanks for any help.
Mon, 02/12/2007 - 06:48
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Taking the next step
A year with a girl without sex?
Holy crap.
Carress her while making out slowly going further until your reach her clitoris. Then caress that while making out. She doesn't have to orgasm - just get a nice 'burn' from it. Then do it again the next time and see if fingering is now permitted - this time, caress the G-Spot and induce an orgasm.
I apologize - I should have mentioned that we're pretty young (15)
That makes a world of difference there. I think that it probably would be a wise idea to wait until you're a little older to get into such activities. While you may feel like you're ready for that kind of stuff now, you may end up regretting it. Look at a few of the posts on teen sex and I think you'll see what I mean.