Hey guys thought I would post up a hello and a question I have. I am 19 and doing the college thing right now. I have been a reader for a while and I have to say the info provided has been awesome! keep up the good work...
My situation is not uncommon. I really like my girlfriend and I'm pretty sure shes into me, and I want to take things further. Only she says she wants to wait till marriage, and she considers foreplay and stuff as sex.
I am alright with waiting for intercourse b/c I really care for and respect her, but is there any way that I could convince her to take things past kissing? This way she would still be a virgin, but we could at least get a little more intimate with eachother. Any advice on this?
all you can do is ask her about it, why does she consider it sex? how does it offend her religion? what exactly makes her uncomfortable? however, she has those values for a reason and if u care enough for her then you would respect them. remeber "no" means "no", pushing the subject will only push her away and make her less willing to listen to your point of view. you can't make someone do something they don't want to.