My SO and I both really enjoy when the other takes over the other in bed but I need some help/ creative ideas from you all. He doesn't really like lots of props, etc. so tying him down and handcuffs are fair game but not too much else. He really likes the element of surprise which is always fun ;) I guess I'm asking the guys out there, what would you want your SO to do to you in that situation? Any ideas would be great, always looking for something new :) Thnx!
Wed, 08/17/2011 - 20:27
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taking control of your man in bed...
For me, the whole props and whatnot are a secondary. I'm much more situational. My biggest fantasy for my wife is to take control of me in an unexpected situation. There's the much mulled over point of her just coming to my office when I'm out working late. But even things like when I'm just messing around the house, just practicing my guitar or whatnot. Any time when the situation isn't an expected event.
I know this sounds corny, but the one I've suggested plenty is while I'm just sitting on the couch folding laundry (yes some of us do that :)) she would come up to me in a dress and push me back, telling me to just sit on my hands and shut up. She would completely fuck my brains out, not even bothering to take any clothes off, and all for my benefit. Once I come she would clean me up and tuck me back in, then lay on the couch next to me in full view of me and finish herself off (if she didn't already come).
Unfortunately my wife is extremely vanilla, so this won't ever happen. Just filed under fantasy. :)
It is all in your attitude, hun. Initiating, taking control and doing whatever you want with him - without regard for his desires - is precisely the point.
What do YOU want to do with him?
Bodyworship while avoiding his genitals tends to drive men insane which is a good thing.
Mix in a bit of torment - using sharpened claws to draw graceful arabesques on his skin leaving red marks - heightens his awareness and sensitivity.
then you try to induce as many orgasms in him as he can stand - plus one more.
I'm fortunate I'm not in a relationship with you EEK. I think I'd die of ejaculatory dehydration. :D
Your single first line completely rocked what I "thought" I wanted to be controlled as. Here I was thinking of her doing something to me, and controlling me for my own pleasure. But your description of being used as a tool for her pleasure soundly trumps that.
I may I have new things to think about for tomorrow's shower. ;)
Excuse me? I take very good care of my men.
I must be because they keep coming back!
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;272554]Excuse me? I take very good care of my men.
I must be because they keep coming back![/QUOTE]
Just being sarcastic on how good of a job I'm sure you do, and how lost I would be in a sea of talent like that. :)
I was speaking humorously, firmus - not upset.
Having too much fun to be upset.
Give him a bj or hj out of the blue, and during it tell him he better cum in x amount of time or you will do something bad. You will force him to lick your ass, you will finger his ass, you will make him cum on your tits and he has to lick it off.
If you google the term mistress control tube you will find lots of videos that will give you ideas.