Recently I was reading a thread about ladies swallowing cum. Here's a guys perspective. We swallow a lot of female juices when we perform oral. My lover likes to sit on my face so I can swallow all her juices and not leave a big wet spot on her side of the bed. The truth is that intercourse is often not as messy as oral sex. It's easy to leave a pool of saliva if one is not careful so I understand her concerns and try to address them...
The truth is that it is wonderful to have your lover to help you to cum. It also true that it ruins the mood when your partner jumps out of bed, runs to the bathroom, gags and spits the fruits of our love making down the sink...
I'd rather kiss and cuddle... ;)
I agree. I imagine if a girls runs to the bathroom to spit it really ruins the mood. It's not like there's cups and liters of cum to swallow and not that the taste is very extreme. I think it's more psychological, even if those women don't admit it.
I myself like swallowing it - not because of taste, but because it feels like sharing the pleasure and makes me feel even closer to my bf.
I agree with this also. I find her juices delicious and the feel and smoothness of her vulva very pleasurable, so I enjoy giving her oral sex. She on the other hand finds oral sex more of a task to do, so is less willing to give. I think alot of that is her upbringing and trying to overcome that and just enjoy oral. She has learned to accept recieving it and finds it very enjoyable. Just hasn't reversed the thought process totally to enjoy giving. There are times though that she needs to enjoy my cock with her mouth and so there is hope. She has swallowed a few times and I found that so rewarding that she would be willing to pleasure me that much. But it is a rate occassion. Just letting me cum in her mouth is great and when she just takes a towel or tissue to spit it out is fine with me. Jumping up to spit, wash and brush her teeth is not very appealling and I would just as soon not go that far with oral if she is going to do that, but will finish inside her instead. Having her bring me all the way to climax and then swallowing is the best just like for me getting her to cum and enjoying all her juices is so enjoyable.
When I do oral on my wife, I'm really not aware of licking down any of her fluids. I just don't pay that much attention (is that good or bad?). I certainly don't clean it all up, though, because we usually end up having sex on the linoleum kitchen floor, because there's usually alot of various fluids to clean up after we're done.