MY wife get super sentive really really fast. Which makes oral a little hard. I take pride in this area of sex because its the only way that I (doing something other then laying there) can get her off. Any ideas on a way to get over this something that can be used or IO should do.
Thanks
She may not enjoy oral or the way you approach her with your tongue is a tad too much. Use a flat tongue and use the same technique as you do when eating an ice cream cone. It should be very VERY soft, no firm pressure unless she asks for it. You can also incorporate a toy or a finger to add to her pleasure. A great place for oral technique is:
www.cunnilingustutor.com
That super-sensitivity is felt by her brain as pain and it is a FALSE signal caused because her brain is unaccustomed to the extra stimulation. Go read the sticky post entitled, Body Worship and do this until she calms down, then read the sticky post entitled The Program and follow the steps. Doing this consistently will increase her pleasure, curing her of that super-sensitivity of hers btw, and give you something more to do. And who knows? as your skills improve you may be able to stimulate her G-Spot and her posterior fornix to orgasm.
The clitoris can be stimulated indirectly. To do this fold the inner labia over it and massage it through them. You can also tug on the labia and this will involve the clitoris indirectly.
Thanks for all the tips. I will give them a try. She is also scaried to explore more "fun" things. Married 8 years and I finally got her to go into a fanisty shop with me.
Scared?? Of what??? Not like the world will come to an end if she enjoys herself through great sex!!!
Well to tell you the truth she comes up with a couple of reason \, or possable reasons I should say. One possable reason is she say her parents toys, another is its a little hard to get her off. That usally happens when she is on top. well she had a boyfriend that ask her why she was not like other women. It was one of her first sexual incounters. She has not problem looking at this site with me but going into a shop is another story,.
She also does not understand why I keep looking for better ways to do things. Well untill the other night when I started with massages. Granted we could not do anything because of the timing but it showed here that things can always get better. I'm the type of man that like to she his partner get off. If I get off once to her 3 times I'm happy. Heck not long ago she was 6 time in an hour to my once and I was beaming from ear to ear. I'm slowly working on her because I think she is still holding back.
Well to tell you the truth she comes up with a couple of reason \, or possable reasons I should say. One possable reason is she say her parents toys, another is its a little hard to get her off. That usally happens when she is on top. well she had a boyfriend that ask her why she was not like other women. It was one of her first sexual incounters. She has not problem looking at this site with me but going into a shop is another story,.
She also does not understand why I keep looking for better ways to do things. Well untill the other night when I started with massages. Granted we could not do anything because of the timing but it showed here that things can always get better. I'm the type of man that like to she his partner get off. If I get off once to her 3 times I'm happy. Heck not long ago she was 6 time in an hour to my once and I was beaming from ear to ear. I'm slowly working on her because I think she is still holding back.
sorry when I hit post it said I was not logged in