Well, i'm not an older woman quite yet, so my story is going to be a bit second-hand. my boyfriend's first sexual experience was with a woman about 12 years older than him (he was 18, she was 30). she taught him lots and he never has regretted it, and is actually quite proud of it.

and my other little bit of input-- i have had several fantasies about being seduced by an older bisexual woman.

I was 21 when I got back from Viet nam and went over to see my ex-girlfriend's folks. Her mother was like my second mom and we always got along fine. I had walked over that evening and it had started raining, so mom said she'd drive me home. We pulled into my drive way (a couple of hundred yards long), and she stopped and asked if she could have a kiss goodnight. Next thing I knew her breast was in my hand and my pants were open and she was squeezing my balls and stroking my penis. We got undressed enough to get me inside her. She had a Nash Ramber station wagon and tilted my seat back and straddled my lap. She rode me for the longest time (said she came several times) until I released my sperm deep inside her. The car smelled like sex. We arranged our clothes and she drove me up to the house. I guess she must have been about 44 at the time. Later, during another visit, she told me her husband had only seen her naked 2 times in 20 years (once was by accident). He had never given her oral sex nor did he ever want oral sex done on him. Well, over the next year or so, that changed. I showed her what it was like to have a tongue pleasuring her and she learned to give head wonderfully. She is now in her 70's but still not a bad looking woman. We haven't gotten together since 1969, but I would still like to one more time.

Age does not matter. What matters is what the people want. Take me for example I used to work at a resturant washing dishes when I was 19. I hit on everyone of them. Did not "score" or go out with any of them. I got to talking to one this one particular night and hit on her a time or two. She refuesed and then started to talk me into hitting on her mother. Being "young dumb and full of cum" I did. I have always gotten crushes and wanted to be with an older woman. Yes I will admit it. But I got to talking to this girls mother, the girl being right around my age give or take 5yrs, I started to hit on her mother. Her mother agreed to the situation. She also let me know what the repricussions were. She was married, not happily married but married. I told her I would take care of the happily part and she let me. She told me that I was the most fantastic lover she had ever been with and all this stuff. Well now 5yrs later we are still together. She divorced her husband a few months after we started seeing each other and we are happy. So the whole thing is not the standards of other people but what you want.

Nope. I'm the youngest. The only sibling I have is an old brother. lol.

I agree with tease that not everyone needs to date the same age. Those days of couples dating the same ages are over. There are many couples out there with age differences. Nothing wrong with dating someone older or younger as long as you do it responibly and leggally. I love older women. Most of my female friends that I talk to as a friend are older than I am, why? Because they are easier to talk to. I find the younger females annoying and snobby which is why I mostly talk to the older women as "friends". If Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher can get laid everynight, so can everyone else.

[QUOTE=Quote (thetease13 @ Dec. 05 2004,09:48)]Hey Jaybee, I don't see anything wrong with it from either direction.
I know how the age thing goes.  Trust me.  My guy is almost 20 years older than I am, and I've heard my fair share of "find someone your own age" and various forms of it as well.
I get very VERY irritated when people start to get on others cases for saying the same thing.  Who is anyone to say what age is right for someone else?
I've never liked people my own age.  Sure, I've had my crushes, but the people I've always been more attracted two were atleast 10 years older than me.
Not everyone needs to date/see "someone their own age".

I point out the quote in my siggy that just because it's not right for you, doesn't mean it's not right for somebody else.

As long as both of the people are of legal age in their state or their country, then let them go on about their business.[/QUOTE]
You got a younger sister for me?

Jaybee.

Hey Jaybee, I don't see anything wrong with it from either direction.
I know how the age thing goes. Trust me. My guy is almost 20 years older than I am, and I've heard my fair share of "find someone your own age" and various forms of it as well.
I get very VERY irritated when people start to get on others cases for saying the same thing. Who is anyone to say what age is right for someone else?
I've never liked people my own age. Sure, I've had my crushes, but the people I've always been more attracted two were atleast 10 years older than me.
Not everyone needs to date/see "someone their own age".

I point out the quote in my siggy that just because it's not right for you, doesn't mean it's not right for somebody else.

As long as both of the people are of legal age in their state or their country, then let them go on about their business.

The only thing that bothers me, about this entire issue, is some of the two-facedness by women.

Many will applaud one of their 40something sisters finding a handsome young buck to screw - no argument so far - but will brand a 40-something guy looking for a hot chick in her early 20's as a "Dirty old man", or a "Closet paedo".

The hypocrisy disgusts me, and it's rife. No man or woman should be made to feel guilty about his/her preferences.

Me, I'm 36, and I make no apology for wanting girls who are 10 years or more younger.

Just in case any of the women here wish to brand me a woman hater just because of that, I would point out that, by the same token, we as a society are WRONG to applaud schoolboys who have sex with female teachers, while at the same time wanting to castrate male teachers who sleep with schoolgirls.

Why the difference? Should we not protect the innocence of the young, both male and female, EQUALLY?

Jaybee.

[QUOTE=Quote (WallyLlama @ Dec. 04 2004,02:56)]Maybe I woke up grumpy, but the generalities in this thread are killing me.

I've known some extremely passionate and sensual married women (of all ages). And one of the things that makes them potentially good partners is the very fact they are married. Some are very capable of "compartmentalizing." They don't want to screw up their marriage, they just want a little side action and excitement.

(And if that horrifies you, just stay away and don't play with them. Don't judge them as sluts and cheaters.)[/QUOTE]
Very well written Wally. Got to admit the word slut was annoying as hell to me. Not every married woman is a slut but does have her reasons for doing what she does.

I do wish people would stop generalizing other people also.

Tease, feels good doesn't it?  

I would also say I agree with eDJ that one much be very cautious in dating a married person. There are of course horror stories in the extreme and there is also no horror story and it is done for whatever the personal reason might be.

After reading the above post, kind of hit me, some married women can lie to you about being single/divorced because it's her way of trying to get away with things just to get sex from you.

Some mature woman can be nice and respectful. Some can be evil demons just like the young ones are. That's why there are lessons to be learned and need to be careful when dating older women.  

I would agree that there are plenty of married people out there who would entertain extra curricular sex and be good
lovers with those they have on the side.  In my experience
there are those who date outside their union only with other married people, and those who have their affairs with a much wider range of partners.

To a teenager this may not make much sense, but the wisdom
of married with married  partners is that both have to maintain the secret of their activities mutually.  If one tells it can mess things up for one or both of them.  Divorces can
take place, lawsuits, and problems in the community where they live if it is a small town even.  

If a single person is discovered with a married one, a law suit may name the single person in an "alienation of affections" legal proceding.  It isn't something an intellegent person wants
on his or her record.  These things tend to come back and haunt people in securety checks when they seek  employment, and other matters of daily life.  

If the married person has young children, child custody hearings may come as a result.  Most women want their children even if it means being a single mom faced with all
of the responsibility of their care.  In the past this arrangement depended on child support payments and
collections made on "dead beat dads", but as more women
are becoming juvinile probate judges now days, there is a growing number of reports in legal journals where the girls
are finding themselves in a more astringent legal environment.
Just not a nice experience to endure.

In the end it is a matter which I personaly would approach the same way as "safe sex".  Just my opinion I guess, but I would bid anyone to be cautious in dating a married person.
Notice how enraged women become when they find out the guy they have been dating/sleeping with is secretly married?  They know at best, it is like being worried if they may have gotten pregnant.....fearing his wife and her divorce lawyer may call her to testify in court, within the statute of limitations time,  which is a lot longer to worry the time waiting for her next period.  The best she can do is tell him to
get out of her life and stay out, and then keep the secret...and hope she isn't pregnant or contracted some disease from him.

This labors the reasoning a little more to make the generalities a little more specific.  Not to say married folks can't be hot lovers, but it is so much safer for an inexperienced single and
constructive for them to date single when you are single.

As an example....this kid I grew up with had just gotten back from the Marine corp and met a girl at a nightclub.  He was in shape and looking good and she was secretly married to a guy who traveled in his work.  The third date with her he had gotten out of his car when a drive by shooting occured and his legs were filled with buckshot.  It wasn't close up but they took about 20+ shot out of him and he has healed up today...but it was in the paper and all kinds of embarrasment for him.  And he didn't even know she was married.(still his lawyer told him he should have taken some time to know this girl and what he was getting himself into)

In the spirit of SexInfo 101.....this sort of addresses some of the legal implication associated with sexual encounters with
a married lover. From my experience I don't see single guys
as likely to be baited by married women, however, single women are far more likely to be hit on by married men....especially young inexperienced ones who don't know this stuff.

eDJ

[QUOTE=Quote (WallyLlama @ Dec. 04 2004,05:56)]Maybe I woke up grumpy, but the generalities in this thread are killing me.

I've known some extremely passionate and sensual married women (of all ages). And one of the things that makes them potentially good partners is the very fact they are married. Some are very capable of "compartmentalizing." They don't want to screw up their marriage, they just want a little side action and excitement.

(And if that horrifies you, just stay away and don't play with them. Don't judge them as sluts and cheaters.)[/QUOTE]
Now here's something you will very rarely hear me say.

I agree with Wally.

Maybe I woke up grumpy, but the generalities in this thread are killing me.

I've known some extremely passionate and sensual married women (of all ages). And one of the things that makes them potentially good partners is the very fact they are married. Some are very capable of "compartmentalizing." They don't want to screw up their marriage, they just want a little side action and excitement.

(And if that horrifies you, just stay away and don't play with them. Don't judge them as sluts and cheaters.)

Buttercup, I can't resist saying this... I find my sayings the same way I find my pleasures: by being open to them, savoring the best, and committing them to long term memory. (I was going to include "using them often" but that has a negative connotation if referring to people.)

I agree with EDJ to stay away from the married ones 'cause you're in a huge risk of getting in deep trouble with her husband. That's what married sluts do, ruin people's lives.   There are even some husbands out there that are willing to offer you their wife for sex only, like the husband will say things like, "Hey, my wife likes you and I'm willing to let you bang her." Stay away from that as well even if the husband gives you permission.

It's very difficult to find a mature woman who is single/divorced because a lot of them are already taken. The best way to find a mature woman who is single/divorce is look up "personals" sections on the internet or the newspapers. But only look for the mature women who is looking for younger guys.

I don't just want a mature woman just for sex, I would also like a long term serious relationship with her as well. Mature women are much easier to get along with and they are more easier to talk to as well. The mature women are not as snobbier and bitchier like the younger women are.  

If a guy is looking for a fling with an older lady....I'd suggest leaving the married ones alone. Whether you see her as easy or willing there are divorced single ones around that you
can do much better with. There are legal issues if you intervien in a marriage, likewise with a young girl with an older married man.

If you want to just have sex with an older woman once and run...you won't really learn much. If you are in some kind of
relationship with her no matter how short that is you will
benefit and learn more. One night stands go nowhere.
Sex with an older partner is an opportunity to learn from them.

If you're like 15 these hit and miss sex events are about the best you can do till you can find a partner to be invloved with.
It isn't likely you will find an older lady who will consider a
one timer with a much younger partner....as they have been
in involved relationships so long that they won't be able to relate to it. For them it is a step down in status and most
just won't go there. It's just common sense.

eDJ

[QUOTE=Quote (Greendale @ Dec. 02 2004,10:34)]Believe me dude, there are many married sluts out there that are willing to have sex with anyone they lay eyes upon. Even if a married mature woman would come after me, I'd refuse, 'cause I'd feel uncomfortable having sex with someone who is already taken. If she was single or divorce then I'd definitely go for it. Yes, I've had mature women hit on me before.[/QUOTE]
Yeah you're probably right about the married ones, I'd feel kinda bad about that. I'd hate for that to happen to me too, and what goes around usually comes around. I don't know though I've always had a thing for married women, older married women, not like some girl my age that's married because everything is usually still good in the relationship of a girl around my age. I'd like to find the ones that are bored with their husbands...

Believe me dude, there are many married sluts out there that are willing to have sex with anyone they lay eyes upon. Even if a married mature woman would come after me, I'd refuse, 'cause I'd feel uncomfortable having sex with someone who is already taken. If she was single or divorce then I'd definitely go for it. Yes, I've had mature women hit on me before.

That would be kick ass to screw an older woman. I don't know if I could do 40 + though, I'm just 20. Definately mid thirties though, I saw some chick one time with a doofy husband and 2 kids, but she was so hot, and she kept checking me out, almost staring at me. It was great, I just don't know how I'd approach an older woman, especially if she were married.

Don't worry, I got it too, Vaga. And I'm also 19.

[QUOTE=Quote (vagabondprince @ Nov. 29 2004,13:09)]The Graduate  

sad that i actually got that being only 19 (and straight if that actually has anything to do with it)...[/QUOTE]
LOL... I think it means you have a little more knowledge than the average 19 yr. old.

And the "gay" thing... well, we tend to like those old movies, especially ones with strong female leads. Anne Bancroft... WOW! lol

Its an interesting topic for me. When I was 17 I had an affair with my girlfriend's mother. It happened (I thought) by accident, but later when I was older and thought about it, I am sure it was planned on her part.

She was in her late thirties and I would hang out at their house all the time. (I think my girlfriend's father liked the fact he knew where we were). One day after school I went over to her house and she was gone with her brother and I started watching tv while waiting for her to come home.

Her mother was in the kitchen and had me come in to get a dish from the upper shelf. I noticed she was not wearing a bra and it kinda got my attention...it was not too visable but I always checked her out.

We just got to talking in the kitchen and it turned to sex talk. She said that she was self conscience about her breast and lifted her shirt to show them to me....after a couple of big swallows (very dry throat) I reached out and touched them and after that it was not long until we were in bed. We only did it a couple of times and she turned cold toward me and we stopped.

Ron

I just want to say that even though I'm nowhere near 40+, I smile at the thought of being a sexy 40-some year old and getting myself a nice hot 20 year old.    (If I'm not married or anything).That would just be so cool.

[QUOTE=Quote (WallyLlama @ Nov. 30 2004,03:08)]There's some snow on the roof, but a fire in this furnace.[/QUOTE]
LOL
Where do you come up w/ these little saying?

As someone who's a bit "long in the tooth" (particularly compared to the majority of folks on this forum), I'm a bit more interested in younger women who want to be seduced by older men!

There's some snow on the roof, but a fire in this furnace.

Not all "old" men are fat and ugly or missing teeth, either.

The Graduate

sad that i actually got that being only 19 (and straight if that actually has anything to do with it)...

anyway, i have always wondered how i might seduce an older woman. or hope to get seduced by one. it'd be an interesting experience.

Um, I believe there are many mature women who are willing to get laid with younger guys. Mature women enjoy younger men because it makes them feel younger.

I've always dreamed of having sex with a mature woman, it's one of my biggest fantasies. Since I'm currently 27, my age limit to have a relationship with a mature woman would be 35-45.

Not all old women are fat and ugly and have missing teeth, there are beautiful old women out there

Mrs. Robinson.... are you trying to seduce me?

Once again I'm either really old... or really gay.

This has been a source of many erotic/porn novels and stories for years. The young guys are looking and thinking in the way of the older girls, but unlike the girls looking at the older guys and are free to flirt....the guys have to repress these feelings. Often the women have their thoughts too but are fearful as by that age they would have a lot to loose if found out.

In some occasions something happens and the two hook up
and it is usually dynamite sex when they do. He is in his sexual peak and she it at hers(with him being around 18 and her around her early 40's) I've had older women friends when I was younger(later 20's) but didn't get the chance when 18 like some of my friends did.

If ya want to find this book in an Adult Book/Movie type of store it is fairly common. Boy Hungary Librarian by Randy
Howard. It's the story of a mature but frustrated librarian lady in a small town, who one day catches a couple teens
having sex in her library. Something snaps inside her and she
starts having sex with all the boys in town in way nobody would believe. It is hot, funny, ironic, and it all works to everyones mutual benefit and satisfaction. I've read it many times and enjoy it each time. This is one of the best Porn's I've read. A lot of the girls I've loaned it to simply loved it.

Hope anyone who gets a copy enjoys it.

eDJ

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