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Sucked a guy - I don't know

i sucked a guys penis, i barely knew him, i was just really horny...is that okay ? i'm 14 years old

please someone tell me

hmmm what do you want to hear?
do you think it was ok?
or do you want us to say that was slutty?
I mean you shouldn't make a habit of having any type of sexual encounters w/ people you dont know... its not always safe out there.
Plus your screen name would lend to your horniness. =\

Haven't you heard all the talk around you and on TV and in the media about practicing safe sex, getting and preventing AIDS, birth control, and more?

You essentially played Russian Roulette with a fully loaded cannon in which the one barrel was primed and ready to fire, unlike a six-shooter that has five empty chambers.

Oh, and where's the love. You are playing adult games without knowing or even appreciating the rules and responsibilities.

Is it OK? I think it was wrong and irresponsible on so many levels.

Somehow the screenname reminds me of a spammer that joined a couple of days ago...

It wasn't the smartest thing to do.

no it was not ok, you shouldn't just do that with random guys. im sure that you've heard of aids like the others say (not saying not to worry about it) but there are also other things, like herpes. would u like to just go out have a nice time then the next time you look in a mirror your face has broken out?

um
...if u have to ask if thats ok or not ,hen u need help

to me...thats not ok

u shuldnt go sucking off guys u hardly know

ever heard of umm aids? and even if they dont have aids or anything like that;do u no care about self repsect

Lastly, and for future reference, please know and understand that when you have any type of sexual contact with another person, you essentially have also had indirect vicarious contact with every other individual that this person has ever had sexual contact with. This is how "social diseases" are spread.

Please be more responsible in your future so that you protect that future. Do not be afraid to ask questions and get a "history" on a person's prior sexual escapades. It is not uncommon for someone to acquire a disease from casual sex sometimes with perminent and lasting results.

Consider a penis to be the equivelent of a loaded canon and that whatever you do with it, you are playing a game of Russian Roulette albeit with a single barrel and not a six shooter with five empty chambers. Make sure the "bullets" are clean and disease free before firing it.

Any disease that is passed on through genital-genital contact can be passed on through oral-genital contact.

While it is not impossible to pass HIV/AIDS through oral sex - it is unlikely - so says the NIH website. But herpes etc are well represented in the literature.

Yes, and there are a couple of other "unlikelies." Point should be gotten that anyone with whom one requires condoms for vaginal sex, should get them for oral sex as well.

Yum latex??? Ah no I don't think so. But then I know all about my men.
This girl didn't which is why it wasn't the brightest thing she could have done.
She doesn't have to 'love' him but she know more about him than she did.

Sometimes I just can't believe what I am reading. What do you mean is that ok? Ok by who's standards? I would tell you NO it isn't ok. First of all at 14 how much do you know about sex? I know you may think you know it all but it is apparent to me that you don't if you have to ask this question. You really need to talk to someone about this and find out all the risks.

Sex is sex and it is all dangerous if you are not prepared. This includes (among many other things) knowing the person you are with (and their history) as well as having protection and knowing that this is exactly what you want to do and who you want to do it with. STDs can be transmitted durring oral favors. If you were to catch something that you can't shake you won't be having much sex in the future. Not every STD is fixable. You have to be careful of what you do today as you are not well informed of the consequences that go along with it.

While latex doesn't sound like it would taste too good they do make flavored condoms for oral deeds. They aren't the best tasting but I would rather taste one for a little while then to have to take pills everyday of the rest of my life for HIV or Herpies. But then again I don't give head to random guys. If you choose not to listen to us, you really should go to your local Family Planning Center or Planned Parenthood or whatever it is called where you live. They can give you lots of information on this type of activity. Or at least hook you up with some protection. Or better yet Don't Do It Again!

I don't mean to sound all harsh....wait yes I do. Oral sex IS sex, see it is even right in the name. I know that teens today don't think oral to be sex and that it is being done left and right to any and every guy by whichever girls are doing it. The facts are that is it not safe and in no way is a good idea. If it is about being popular or so someone will like you or everyone else is doing it, then those are not good reasons to be doing something so stupid and dangerous. You didn't even know the guy, how is that a good idea?

Researchers say nearly 3 million American teenagers become infected with one or more STDs each year, including bacterial infections like gonorrhea and chlamydia and viral infections like HIV and herpes. Although the risk of getting an STD through oral sex is lower than through intercourse, it is possible to become infected with all these STDs through oral sex.

Research also shoes that one in five people over the age of 12 in the U.S. are infected with HSV-2 and many more are infected with HSV-1. And 90% of those infected with HSV-2 don't know it.

You might have gotten lucky this time and not contracted anything but next time who knows...be on the look out for symptoms, You'll never know what this guy could have had since you didn't even know him let alone his past.

It is not ok to suck people off you dont know. However if it was a friend or someone you knew well, that is fine. There is nothing wrong with oral with a friend to releive sexual tension.

I think it was stupid, not for the whole love thing as I feel love is an illusion anyway, but as Doc said.....you don't want to contract aids and drastically shorten your life merely for a few minutes of pleasure. Do it safely and you can do it longer and more often anyway, ;)

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