so, im in a little bit of a rut. my boyfriend and i are both submissive, and a little shy. occasionally we'll have a dominant streak, but see, it won't ever last for long. He absolutely loves the idea of me punishing him in some type of kinky way, and i'm not exactly sure how to do it. Does anyone have any tips or something I could use? It'd help me a out a lot
Tue, 06/12/2007 - 23:11
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submisive boyfriend
Maybe whack him lightly with a leather strap - like an old belt. Not too hard, but just enough.
Handcuffs are also a good choice.
You have but to ask!
The best punishments are psychological ones. But you must abide by the following rules:
1. do not leave him alone - ever.
2. no more than 45 minutes.
just tie him up, or tie him down, but restrain him in some way, get him all excited, and then....IGNORE him.
No. Do not go there - not just yet.
Remember these two are beginners!
Besides - who is the domme here??
Alright, thanks. I'll try that with him. :) Any tips on exactly what i should do to him, or how to do it properly? :D
Be calm cool collected and in command - get your attitude on. The do with him as you want - ignoring hs wishes.
So I tried it out, and it was a great success. ;)
Lucky... Nothing turns me on more than the idea of my girlfriend using my body as a sex toy. Don't get me wrong i'm more than dominitive, but I Wish I had a girlfriend like you :-P
You may want to try this .....
tie him to the bed with old pantyhoses ........ then tease him a little by gentky rubbing your body on him .......arousing him and after .....leave him on the bed ...as you put on your sexiest lingerie ..... tease him as you slip on your stockings ...... then after .... have sex with him with your llingerie on
McKay - she's not here to satisfy or pander to him - she is using him for her own pleasure This calls for a completely different attitude than teasing him.