to spice up my marrage and after 25 yrs of marrage i decided to shave down below, well my q is a have a lot of stubble and was wondering if there something out there that helps with that or do i have to shave all the time and will it get less stubbles the more i shave. my husband seems to like it this way and i would like to keep it this way for him. we had sex the other night and it lasted for more then 3 hrs and if this helped i would like to keep it off. i know it wont aways be 3 hrs but it would be nice lol
Mon, 10/26/2009 - 22:54
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a stupid question for you
Congrats!
You now have to shave all the time!
Or you can let it grow back out, just trim it from now on, and invest your time and energy "spicing up" by doing The Program and Body Worship.
Hair grows back. That's just a sad fact of life. Only waxing will give you longer term effects, but that's not for everyone. My wife trims/shaves and so do I. Basically it becomes a personal grooming routine and I don't even think about it anymore.
I guess I just needed to talk to him about it. I told him it is itchy after I shave it and he said "then don't shave it." We got it all worked out, I think.
This is the only guy I have ever been with and we are both new to this sexual stuff. I think I am going to just let it grow out and if he wants to play with it he can, if he doesn't that's fine. I am going to ask him to trim his because it tickles my nose when I am giving him head. To me, our relationship isn't only about sex.
Why shold I consider his opinion? It is my body and since I RESPECT his decisions regarding what he does with his body then he should RESPECT my decisions about mine.
And I PREFER FUR but will consider men without.
Relationship are about comprimise in ever since of the word. I personaily prefer a woman to be shaved. I have been with women who do not like to shave and I have still went down on them. If its unfcomforable for a woman in any way a man should be considerate of that fact. It is womans boby and a womans preference. However if you want a man to preform oral sex on you his opinoin should be considered. It is a much more pleasant experience if a woman is at least trimmed. If hes a good man you can work through this issue. Would any woman enjoying go down on a man whos penis was covered with hair. Im sure its possible some may not mind but I would guess many would prefer him to trim or shave entirely.
"But if I don't shave, he won't play with it."
You cannot be serious. I have never shaved my pubic hair. I have never had difficulty finding someone to "play with it."
But if I don't shave, he won't play with it.
[QUOTE=ohyeahbabe;249884]But if I don't shave, he won't play with it.[/QUOTE]
Wow what a selfish twit he is then.
If he was mine he would of been told to hit the road
So what?
He's not the only man around....go and get yourself a man and not some boy pretendig to be one.
Real men say : "JUST SHOW UP."
and they don't gve a damn if you're shaved or bushier than a wombat.
All they care about is you saying yes, and maybe liking them enough to go for seconds, or thirds, or fourths, or...you get the message. The point is that you are an adult and it is your body and all others have to accept your decisions about your body and what you choose to do to it and with it.
Stand up for yourself and let the unworthy fall by the wayside.
STOP ACCOMODATING MEN.
STOP APPEASING MEN.
Ah yes, "I want to make him happy". Well, of course you do. The dreaded male appeasement begins with just such small steps. She will endure whatever pain, trouble, and discomfort to make him happy because she holds herself responsible for his emotons. If he is unhappy, displeased, angry - it surely must be her fault and she must quickly correct her errors.
Do you not see the dangers of such accomodations?
Instead of her stepping down he should step up an become a man who does not require being pandered to.
I shave down there for my bf, it's a pain, but he likes it and I want to make him happy!
thefamily, Do you shave your vagina opening or just the really hairy part?
"But if I don't shave, he won't play with it."
What is an "it"?
I also try to shave for my boyfriend...but I agree....its a pain. I have a dumb question to add though. Does the "stubble" down there hurt the guy Cause if guys have bad facial stubble and can hurt to kiss...so I imagine it isn't very comfortable.
Depends upon how stiff the stubble is - some people have coarser hair than others.
[QUOTE=akp0404;250511] Does the "stubble" down there hurt the guy Cause if guys have bad facial stubble and can hurt to kiss...so I imagine it isn't very comfortable.[/QUOTE]
A woman once ground on the head of my penis with stubble and it was one the single most instantaneously painful sexual experience I've ever had. Think waxing pain x 50. Even if it doesn't touch the penis, it's very uncomfortable rubbing against it.
If you want hair removed, use wax or sugar and have it done professionally.
Trimming it neatly works fine. Using an electric beard clipper is preferable because the cut ends are less sharp than scissors.