Okay so I was wondering is there anything that i can do to make my orgasms stronger? I sometimes have orgasms so intense that afterwards I am just sort of dead. but lately i havent even come close. I get the feeling as if it will be amazing, but then it turns into nothing more than a sort of chill that runs through my body. Ive tried Kegels because i heard it can help, but it doesnt seem to work. Any suggestions?
Fri, 08/17/2007 - 23:55
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Stronger Orgasms
Sure thing....
Tip #1: If you are masturbating, do not do it so often or frequently.
Tip#2: If you are in a sexual relationship with someone, this is a great method.
Tip#3: Both 1&2
Depending upon age, how a guy is "wired", his sex drive, and how often he has climaxed during the past twenty-four hours, pretty much determines the intensity of the next orgasm.
When having sex with a lover, the orgasms tend to be much more intense than when we masturbate because of the pheromones, "sparks", and emotional connections between the couple.
Because you did not state how you wanted a stronger climax, let me just add some additional information for you and any others reading this with the same concern. As you no doubt know, after puberty, the younger a boy is, the more he can and possibly does masturbate. As each of us ages, the pace and frequency declines. Whether a person masturbates once every few days, once every couple of days, once a day; or, multiple times a day, regardless, subsequent orgasms will be less intense and sometimes more difficult to achieve.
The primary key to greater intensity is to do it less often. If you can abstain for a couple of days (or longer), the next time will be considerably stronger than if you had just held off a day. The problem with this is in managing stress and pure pleasure. We have a trade off between managing stress and giving into our pleasure. Often one or the other will drive how many times we do it in a day, and, to a lesser degree, over the course of a week. So, the question becomes how much stress are you willing to endure vs. how much pleasure you want in the moment.
Strengthening the PC often does work. I suggest that you keep working on involving them.
Another thing you can do is to delay a climax by building your level of arousal to a point just before your climax where you can still maintain control if you stop {read: [COLOR="Blue">FREEZE[/COLOR]!) all action until your sense of urgency subsides. That accomplished, rebuild your arousal slowly. You can do this one or two more times.
Next, try using a lubricant and not just stroking dry. Using a lube offers a couple of advantages; first, you can stroke the skin much more lightly just grazing the skin, and this can produce much more strength. Locate your hot spots. The A#! hot spot is the Frenulum {Y-shaped ridge of skin on the underside of the penis running from the cleft to the top of the shaft. One or more others are randomly distributed around the Corona Rim. Involve these as your orgasm approaches and your level of sexual tension peaks.
Lastly, please read the information in this link:
"Playing Ball" and How To Tips for Prostate Massage
I hope this is of help. Got questions?
Ahem - learn to do P-Spot massage. That is during sex - massage or othewise stimulate the anterior surface of your prostate gland.
They do make special vibrators just for this purpose.
what i have heard, but yet to try, is the girl hold her breath for 5-10 seconds when she has hit the spot. ive heard that it can increase the intencity by 4-6 times.
could work
NO! Holding your breath is precisely what you are NOT supposed to do!
Breathe deeply, relax and let the orgasm run!!