For godsake look around. Women like it all but at different times. You boys are all looking for a recipe. That does not exist.

Here is one:

1. When invited to enter, slide in very slowly, teasingly, all the way possible
2. The first return stroke should be all the out, pulling out for immediate reinsertion--or not so immediate
3. The second stroke should be a repeat of 1.
4. The second return stroke should should be all the way out without removing your penis
5. The third and subsequent strokes should be long and slow
6. Later, as the man's arousal begins to peak and his sensitivity is increasing, his strokes should become somewhat faster and much shorter
7. Near the point when he is about to reach the brink of an orgasm, thrusting should begin which are rapid and very short strokes often with some "bump and grind" against the pubic bone in order to stimulate the root of the penis
8. If it is desired to prolong intercourse, then modify any of the above to suit
9. If it is desired to shorten intercourse, then modify any/all of the above
10. Do not begin intercourse until the man has been brought to the brink of an orgasm from foreplay activities

Now, like with the spread of gossip, can you imagine the above being taught as part of our sex education? Can you imagine that nearly every guy goes thru the ten steps over and over and over and over and over and over, again?

Where is the spontaneity? Where is the "variety is the spice of life"?
Where is individuality? Can you imagine having several sexual partners and knowing that intercourse is pretty much not going to be much different from one to the other? To help illustrate this point, rent the movie "Hawaii". The plot is about Christian missionaries from New England who sailed to the islands in order to bring Christianity to the natives as well as civility. Life was very structured in those days. One example is when one of the men put on his long-john under ware on a certain date--because that was when it was done in Boston! It didn't matter that it was still uncomfortably hot in October or whenever the changeover was; the reasoning was "this was how we did it in Boston". There was no room for adjusting to circumstances or personal preference. The absurdity is in what if there was an early cold spell on the Eastern Seaboard one year? What if it doesn't get cold in Hawaii and remains hot for several more months?

Reviewing the above, what if you want to modify or change any of the steps, above? What if you want to rearrange the order?

Because there are no sensitive nerve endings within the vagina, the only feelings are around the opening and the G-spot and rear fornex. What matters most in IMHO is what the man needs to do in the here and now to build his arousal, prolong or shorten intercourse--and with consideration for what the two of them desire. Making love is not what we do to each other; rather, what we do with and for each other in partnership. Take your cues for what to do when from your partner's reactions.

... and then there is the "recipe" from the English Sex Manual:
In
Out
... Repeat if necessary