Stripping is all about the temptation through visual excitement. There are multiple ways you can strip by focusing on what your goal is, and what excites him the most. Does he like a sexy powerful girl? Or a cute innocent one? Whatever he likes dress and act accordingly.
If you can dance a little, then you have a head start. Find some music thats slow but has a beat you can move to. But lets start with what kind of girl you want to portray.
If he likes innocent, wear white lace under a modest but sexy exterior. Just before you get down to business put your hair in a ponytail if its long enough for the added innocence, but dont do it too early, your gona take it out soon. While stripping focus on being as modest as possible for as long as possible. Wear heals, and leave them on if possible. Start with your top. If your portraying innocence look down as much as possible, every now and then glance up at him with a innocent look on your face, the kind you would have while you lie about something. Sell your body. To do this, touch it, show him what he wants, do it through the clothes first, and continue as you strip. When you get down to undies, take your bra off with one hand while moving your other hand across your body exploring, feeling, enjoying it all. When you take off something, do it in a position u know he likes. If he likes your ass, bend over straight legged and back to pick up your skirt or undies off the ground to place them somewhere. Face diagonaly at most times, but every now and then give him a full show, slowly, progressivly turning your body as you sensualy dance and strip. Now im no choreographer or anything, so i cant tell you how to dance, when to dip when to do what or anything like that, so thats for you to do. If you dont wana look "goofy" practice in a mirror, figure out what moves accentuate your body. But in the end remember, goofy or not he will appreciate it.
The same goes for powerful/sexy look but wear red/black lace, maybe with a bit more lingerie than for a innocent look. Teas him by almost taking off articals of clothing, and integrate a type of lapdance into it. An example would be rolling your thong down progressivly untill it just barly starts to show your genitals, then rolling it back up. Look at him more for this one, but in a powerful "im in charge" way. Be the temptress and let him know what hes getting and whos it is.
For music, if your into reggae a bit, you might like Thievery Corporation. They are progressive reggae and are pretty chill! Great sex music i think. Check um out here, you can sample the songs too :) http://www.thieverycorporation.com/discography.aspx
Sry I cant give more detail on what exactly to do, but hope this helps!! Let us know how it goes!
I kno this may sound stupid but just trust me on the stripping becasue i am a stripper my self lol yeah i truley am i aint lieing anyways if u want to strip but not make a fool out of ur self then first off u need clothes that dont require ur hands to come off ur teeth or ur legs should be able to just slide off but do it so its sexxy if u have a pole a bed pole something u can rub against thats even better ur man works too or ur women i dunno if ur fieacie is male or female so i will tell u everything for both if ur going to wear a bra make sure its a one or 2 hook only and dont reef it off slowly turn ur back towards ur baby and unhook it bending down and then when u come back up slide it slowly but left right left right off ur arms and then thro it when it comes to ur pants dont use ur hands use ur legs but if u have to undo them at the top then do so but slide ur legs sexually up an down until they come off then when ur pants are off sit on the ground lift ur one leg look like ur going to lick it and then lie on ur back slowly taking ur underwear off but ur back propt up as if ur having an orgasim then walk sexxy over to him and make out have sex now for the male men should not be in any type of clothing just ur booty underwear thats it but for them to tease there women have a heart on let it down the side of ur legs dance crutialy towards something when it comes time to take ur underwear off rip them off so what u have to do before u go to strip cut ur underwear in half and sow themn back together but really thin so ur able to rip them off with no complecations
First of all you need the Attitude. YOU OWN HIM. He is not permitted to touch you but you can do whatever you desire to him. TEASE and DON'T deliver. You can wear whatever you please - even just a bathrobe! Just tell him to sit right there. Ignore him half the time and just dance. Caress yourself. Invade his personal space periodically. Laugh at him!
play to the advantage of him wanting you and you taking your time (if that makes sence) but tanterlise if with caution, and suspense.
Basicly thats what id do with a girl but im not dancer and i dont strip, but thats what i think you should do.
Do all of the above, but most of all...enjoy yourself.
Enjoy the fact that he wants you, but your in control so you can tell him no, not yet!
Enjoy that he has to do what you tell him to otherwise he gets nothing!
Enjoy that he will be so turned on by the time that you finish no matter what you do!
1. Breath on him. Nothing like a hot woman breathing into my ear to get me going.
2. Rub up against him (of course, that's more lap dancing than stripping, but lap dancing is a fine thing too!). This includes, bums, the side your trunk, your breasts, etc. (with or without clothes too!).
3. Smile! Look happy and have fun dancing! Tell naughty jokes with naughty motions and have fun with it! That's hot!
I'd offer further suggestions, but it depends on if you want to strip (which is one thing) or lap dance (which is another).
Note, if lap dance is the deal, a nice perfume, nicely done make-up and nicely done hair (with a pleasant scent) help. For some, brushing him with your hair is wonderful thing (let your head swing about softly and brush your hair over him. Note, do not hit his nose with your skull, it will kill the mood!).
Also, even if you're stripping, and not lap dancing, a few toys to enhance the show can go a long way. Only do this if you can be comfortable doing it and you're cool with masturbating in front of him. Otherwise, this will drive your self consciousness up a huge amount and kill the show. That said, men generally love watching women touching themselves in a suggestive manner (and what's more suggestive than toys?) so this could be a very good move.
Dance with energy! High energy with smiles and having fun rock! Low energy dances don't do much (at least for me).
Ummm... One more thing...
Strip first, then lap dance (tell him to sit on his hands for 10 minutes), let him lick taste and nibble you (without getting him undressed), then let him have his way with you.
You'll both end up sweaty and fulfilled.
At least that's how my fantasies always ended.... :-)
and gradually exposing more of yourself as he proceeds to "examine" you. Spend about $20 on a real working stethoscope at a pharmacy or a place that sells uniforms, give it to him, and tell him that your heart starts pounding every time you think about being alone with him, and tell him that you want him to examine you and see what's going on. (I find the sound of a woman's heartbeat over-the-top erotic, especially if it's pumping fast and hard). You'll want him to do a very thorough breast exam and pelvic...
Of course, you could always go to the experts to find some stripping techniques. That is, go visit a strip club. Don't focus on the major fancy moves, you'll only end up feeling overwhelmed trying to to duplicate them. Instead try and study the vibe, the feel and the fluidity, to witness the confidence in motion.
Avoid studying moves from TV or in movies, typically they are either non-suggestive or they are overly choroegraphed.
Ive got some tips for ya.
you cant go wrong. he will love it no matter what. just have fun
Stripping is all about the temptation through visual excitement. There are multiple ways you can strip by focusing on what your goal is, and what excites him the most. Does he like a sexy powerful girl? Or a cute innocent one? Whatever he likes dress and act accordingly.
If you can dance a little, then you have a head start. Find some music thats slow but has a beat you can move to. But lets start with what kind of girl you want to portray.
If he likes innocent, wear white lace under a modest but sexy exterior. Just before you get down to business put your hair in a ponytail if its long enough for the added innocence, but dont do it too early, your gona take it out soon. While stripping focus on being as modest as possible for as long as possible. Wear heals, and leave them on if possible. Start with your top. If your portraying innocence look down as much as possible, every now and then glance up at him with a innocent look on your face, the kind you would have while you lie about something. Sell your body. To do this, touch it, show him what he wants, do it through the clothes first, and continue as you strip. When you get down to undies, take your bra off with one hand while moving your other hand across your body exploring, feeling, enjoying it all. When you take off something, do it in a position u know he likes. If he likes your ass, bend over straight legged and back to pick up your skirt or undies off the ground to place them somewhere. Face diagonaly at most times, but every now and then give him a full show, slowly, progressivly turning your body as you sensualy dance and strip. Now im no choreographer or anything, so i cant tell you how to dance, when to dip when to do what or anything like that, so thats for you to do. If you dont wana look "goofy" practice in a mirror, figure out what moves accentuate your body. But in the end remember, goofy or not he will appreciate it.
The same goes for powerful/sexy look but wear red/black lace, maybe with a bit more lingerie than for a innocent look. Teas him by almost taking off articals of clothing, and integrate a type of lapdance into it. An example would be rolling your thong down progressivly untill it just barly starts to show your genitals, then rolling it back up. Look at him more for this one, but in a powerful "im in charge" way. Be the temptress and let him know what hes getting and whos it is.
For music, if your into reggae a bit, you might like Thievery Corporation. They are progressive reggae and are pretty chill! Great sex music i think. Check um out here, you can sample the songs too :) http://www.thieverycorporation.com/discography.aspx
Sry I cant give more detail on what exactly to do, but hope this helps!! Let us know how it goes!
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I kno this may sound stupid but just trust me on the stripping becasue i am a stripper my self lol yeah i truley am i aint lieing anyways if u want to strip but not make a fool out of ur self then first off u need clothes that dont require ur hands to come off ur teeth or ur legs should be able to just slide off but do it so its sexxy if u have a pole a bed pole something u can rub against thats even better ur man works too or ur women i dunno if ur fieacie is male or female so i will tell u everything for both if ur going to wear a bra make sure its a one or 2 hook only and dont reef it off slowly turn ur back towards ur baby and unhook it bending down and then when u come back up slide it slowly but left right left right off ur arms and then thro it when it comes to ur pants dont use ur hands use ur legs but if u have to undo them at the top then do so but slide ur legs sexually up an down until they come off then when ur pants are off sit on the ground lift ur one leg look like ur going to lick it and then lie on ur back slowly taking ur underwear off but ur back propt up as if ur having an orgasim then walk sexxy over to him and make out have sex now for the male men should not be in any type of clothing just ur booty underwear thats it but for them to tease there women have a heart on let it down the side of ur legs dance crutialy towards something when it comes time to take ur underwear off rip them off so what u have to do before u go to strip cut ur underwear in half and sow themn back together but really thin so ur able to rip them off with no complecations
There are actual poles you can buy that comes with an instructional cd for stripping.
First of all you need the Attitude. YOU OWN HIM. He is not permitted to touch you but you can do whatever you desire to him. TEASE and DON'T deliver. You can wear whatever you please - even just a bathrobe! Just tell him to sit right there. Ignore him half the time and just dance. Caress yourself. Invade his personal space periodically. Laugh at him!
Any way you do it - he will love it!
play to the advantage of him wanting you and you taking your time (if that makes sence) but tanterlise if with caution, and suspense.
Basicly thats what id do with a girl but im not dancer and i dont strip, but thats what i think you should do.
Do all of the above, but most of all...enjoy yourself.
Enjoy the fact that he wants you, but your in control so you can tell him no, not yet!
Enjoy that he has to do what you tell him to otherwise he gets nothing!
Enjoy that he will be so turned on by the time that you finish no matter what you do!
Honestly, for some guys the "no, not yet" thing isn't going to work.
If I'm being teased too much I just pounce on her.
Tie him up if he's my type!
Oooooo, shackles! You sure know the way into my heart, Eph! Just lie down right here. Don't worry. This won't hurt......................much.
My suggestions to you:
1. Breath on him. Nothing like a hot woman breathing into my ear to get me going.
2. Rub up against him (of course, that's more lap dancing than stripping, but lap dancing is a fine thing too!). This includes, bums, the side your trunk, your breasts, etc. (with or without clothes too!).
3. Smile! Look happy and have fun dancing! Tell naughty jokes with naughty motions and have fun with it! That's hot!
I'd offer further suggestions, but it depends on if you want to strip (which is one thing) or lap dance (which is another).
Note, if lap dance is the deal, a nice perfume, nicely done make-up and nicely done hair (with a pleasant scent) help. For some, brushing him with your hair is wonderful thing (let your head swing about softly and brush your hair over him. Note, do not hit his nose with your skull, it will kill the mood!).
Also, even if you're stripping, and not lap dancing, a few toys to enhance the show can go a long way. Only do this if you can be comfortable doing it and you're cool with masturbating in front of him. Otherwise, this will drive your self consciousness up a huge amount and kill the show. That said, men generally love watching women touching themselves in a suggestive manner (and what's more suggestive than toys?) so this could be a very good move.
Dance with energy! High energy with smiles and having fun rock! Low energy dances don't do much (at least for me).
Ummm... One more thing...
Strip first, then lap dance (tell him to sit on his hands for 10 minutes), let him lick taste and nibble you (without getting him undressed), then let him have his way with you.
You'll both end up sweaty and fulfilled.
At least that's how my fantasies always ended.... :-)
and gradually exposing more of yourself as he proceeds to "examine" you. Spend about $20 on a real working stethoscope at a pharmacy or a place that sells uniforms, give it to him, and tell him that your heart starts pounding every time you think about being alone with him, and tell him that you want him to examine you and see what's going on. (I find the sound of a woman's heartbeat over-the-top erotic, especially if it's pumping fast and hard). You'll want him to do a very thorough breast exam and pelvic...
See! All the guys want you to spend money and wear something and act a certain way.
PFFFFT!
Change your mindset, change your focus - and the sex changes as well.
No money needs to be spent. You don't have to dress thia way or that or do anything spectacularly different.
Small changes can have HUGE effects.
Of course, you could always go to the experts to find some stripping techniques. That is, go visit a strip club. Don't focus on the major fancy moves, you'll only end up feeling overwhelmed trying to to duplicate them. Instead try and study the vibe, the feel and the fluidity, to witness the confidence in motion.
Avoid studying moves from TV or in movies, typically they are either non-suggestive or they are overly choroegraphed.
i second EEK with the small changes make a difference.