Why not try warming up with a hand held dildo for starters. That should get you nice and "open" before she hits you with the strap on :)

[QUOTE=sheamazz;260034]My wife loves using a "strap on" on me almost as much as I enjoy her using it on me. We bought the Doc Johnson Vac-u-lock 8-Inch Ur3 Cock, and it feels great. However once we put the lube on, it is difficult to put it in. It is a little too slippery and flexible. Once it is in, it feels great. I like the flexibility, but was wondering if anyone has one that is a little stiffer, for easier penetration. Not too stiff, but a little stiffer than this one. We also like the fact that is looks like a cock.[/QUOTE]

We like silicone dildos. They are more rigid in addition to being easy to clean. In particular we like Vibrating Mistress by Nasstoys and Vibrating Leisure by Tantus. We also have a double dildo(Nexus Jr.) that we use with our harness for doing each other at the same time. We use Wet Original for lube(by the way you can not use silicone lube with silicone toys). A great source for dildos is shevibe.com and stormyleather.com. We have a nice collection of dildos.

Our favorite harness is Buzz Me Tender. It has an o ring for changing dildos and two pouches for small vibrators to stimulate her clitoris while she does me. She loves it.

She does me with the strap on about once a week. PM me for details of our strap on sex.:D

We like using the feeldoe slim by tantus. It feels very comfortable to use and very natural too. It's much better to use with a partner than doing it solo.

Me and my girlfriend use the minx licorice harness from aslan leather along with the mistress or leo dildo. The leo feels better in my ass because it's thicker but its a little to long for me to do much hard fucking. For that we like the mistress. This mistress is just the right length for my girl to really pound me good in the doggy style position when we both want that. My girl just went to the sex shop the other day wile I was at work and found a ribbed, vibrating dildo that she wants to get to use on me. That sounds exciting!!!

The UR3 is by far one of my favorite materials but yeah it is a bit too soft and flexable. I would recommend a Vibrating Jelly Strap On. The Jelly is also very flexable and soft but if it's a vibrator that wont be a problem. Here is a Wireless Power Harness which is Jelly material and I would consider the size a bit short and fat :) it runs about $60 but if you use the code YES1 at checkout you can get it for $29.99 Free Shipping. They have quite a few differnt ones to choose from there and that coupon will work on any 1 item best of luck

Hi everyone! I need some advice with the whole strap on ordeal. So here it goes, My now fiance had brought it up to me 1 day during our play session. I didn't really say much and then she brought it up again and I told her we can try it. Long story short I loved it, I have never unloaded like that before. Sh complains that they hurt her pelvic bone so I went and bought her the DOC JOHNSON vac lock 1's (some pink 1) and the harness is vinyl. She brought up to me before that she would like to get the FEELDOE so being the nice guy I am I went and bought the classic for us. It turns out she likes it but it is to large right now. I tried to talk her into A new harness that she could also use with the FEELDOE, so i instantly saw the spare parts setup and the corset harness that I liked. 1 night I told her we need some new toys and I showed her the harness's (I had already ordered the spare parts1) and she was not impressed, I tried to explain that we need to start smaller and that I want her to have A good harness. She still hasn't said anything about that night. Did I do something wrong? I love the look of the harness it really turns me on. So I tried to get 1 that would work with the dildo she likes.