Let me begin by saying I'm by far not new to sex. I've been having regular sex for about 3-4 years now, with my current boyfriend being my thrid partner. Never have I had such a problem as I do now.
Well I guess to put it bluntly, my boyfriend is pretty "gifted" in the pants. At least a bit more than I am used to, but it is nothing strangely huge. My problem is that I am basically too tight. He enjoys it, when he can, but it's actually starting to hurt him - AND ME! It's so tight in there for him that it's actually ripped some of the skin off of his penis!
Is there anything I can do to loosen it up a bit? We've been having pretty regular sex (when we can get it in) for about three months now, and it doesn't seem to be loosening up for him. Thanks for the help!
Lube lube lube lube.
I don't think it's possible for a lubricated vagina to rip the skin off of someone. I suppose it could be so tight that it couldn't fit in, but excessive friction sounds like a lubrication issue, not a size issue.
Wow. Maybe you need more lube, sounds like the friction is too much; causing irritation and abrasions. My ex fiance was very, very, well endowed, and as they say here 95% of vagina's can accommodate 95% of penis's. Well I was the other 5% and I had been with other "large" men. It took months to get used to but if he was away for a week it was difficult again. So, in time you will stretch out (and it does go back to normal) but the challenge was different positions. Meaning, I could not put my legs over his shoulders...it was not comfortable for either of us. Try adding lube at times see if that helps.