My girlfriend and I have slowly begun taking new steps with each other physically. We've not had sex as of yet but we have physically pleasured each other with our hands.
This has been something which concerns us a little bit. Every time after either I finger her or she fingers herself, her stomach feels off. Now...neither of us go too deep or press hard, really, it's just been explorative. But despite that, her stomach is off for a while afterwards and that has us concerned about what it would be like for her when we finally take the step and have sex.
Is this a normal occurance when first becoming sexually active or individual? And either way, will it eventually go away or is there someway to treat it?
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Her stomach aches (your stomach is right below the center of your ribs) or she has lower abdominal pressure????
Aches is not necessarily the correct word for it. She's told me herself that it's not a pain so much as it is just her stomach feels off.
Lower abdominal area is probably a better way to describe it, yeah
There is no way anyone can tell you anything from this description.
Depending on what you both are doing w/digital penetration it is not unheard of to have pressure, discomfort, or a changed sensation in the lower abdominal area afterwards. In a very small area women are packed w/uterus, ovaries, cervix, bladder, etc. Heavy fingering can cause discomfort, or if she did not climax it can be a cause; as well as, ovarian cysts. Depending on what she is experiencing it's a pretty good idea to visit the Gyn to be certain. If she is experiencing pain or abnormal discharge/foul odor get checked out ASAP. As a broad generalization, it's not an uncommon complaint to have discomfort (not pain) in the lower abdominal area w/heavy stimulation when new to sex especially if you are hitting the cervix and moving it around.
Thank you very much from both of us. Both being new, we were a little worried and this helps calm our worries to know it's not unheard in the early stages.
thank you again:)
[QUOTE=Brandye;165690]There is no way anyone can tell you anything from this description.[/QUOTE]
I'm sorry that our description of the issue does not help you identify the situation, but if it's that much trouble, couldn't you have tried to ask questions for better information?
Not to be rude, but I see that you are a physician and as a concerned couple, your response seems very cold.
Are you sure it's not just nerves?
I tend to get nervous on occasion when initiating sexual activity because I don't see my fiance as much as I'd like to. I have experienced something that sounds somewhat similar but I would describe it more like the traditional "butterflies in my stomach" type of feeling.
If it's painful or there are other signs of concern, she should see a gynecologist. If not, just try to get her to relax.
Best wishes and happy humping!