Hello, I am new here 
I am a 16 yr old male, still a virgin and I am relatively small (errr... 3 " and not very wide 
) Im just wondering, how do you stimulate a women's vagina? I was looking at alot of diagrams and noticed that the vagina (the actual "hole") is way down low, and the clitoris is like, really far apart. I dont understand how you're suppose stimulate her when its like impossible to touch it? Do you like " force push up" or move in and out, or is there a certain technique I am not aware of. Im probaly too small to even please a women, but how do bigger guys do it?
My girl cums during sex and she doesn't need the clitoral stimulation. For instance her favorite position is doggy style and she likes it deep and slow if she gets that it makes her cum hard
It's very difficult to stimulate the clit during sex because, like you mentioned, the clit and vagina are a distance apart. It's especially hard if the woman's clit is on the small side. Like theteaste mentioned, lots of women need a "helping hand" so to speak, either yours or her own. You can try grinding your pelvis on her clit while you have sex.
What my bf does that really does the trick is he'll sometimes stop and lick my clit then resume the sex. Or you can take your dick out periodically and rub her clit with the head of your dick. I don't know if other women are like this either but when my boyfriend hits my g-spot then I feel every little touch on my clit way more intensely. If it's JUST my clit being touched, I take forever to cum but the combined stimulation makes me cum much faster. Sometimes, if he's hitting the right spot inside, even just his balls hitting my clit during doggie is enough to do it for me. As for hitting the g-spot, you should try having your girl lie on her stomach with 2 or 3 pillows under her hips propping her butt up in the air. Then enter her from behind, point your dick down (the g-spot is on the front wall of the vagina) and try grinding your dick into her and doing circles while you're inside her as opposed to just going in and out. I just discovered that this works for me recently after years of never having orgasms.
Also, do lots of foreplay so that your girl is very turned on even before you have sex. The more turned on she is, the more she'll respond to every little touch during sex. Try it and see what happens. I hope I helped, even if a little!
Well you are probably going to want to do the "modified" missionary. I don't know what else to call it.. Where she is lying down on her back, but you are upright on your knees. Then you or her are free to play with her clitoris for some extra stimulation.
With doggie style you or her can reach around and play.
A good position for someone with a shorter penis is for the woman on top. I was with a guy who was about your size. We had very good sex with me on top. He layed flat on his back and I sat straight up on him and moved up and down or he would move me up and down on him. It was very enjoyable and also left he clitoris free to be played with in that position as well. When the woman is on top, you can usually get deeper penetration.
So basically when the guy is on top (which is like 70% of time) the only real way for her to get an orgasm is from g spot not clit? I swear you could stimulate the clit when the guy is on top.
The failsafe being to let the woman be in control and see what she prefers, then build on that.
that's just it, lots of women do not get off during sex.
many women do not reach orgasm from intercourse. we need clit stimulation beacuse the gpsot itself is very hard to reach. so many of us either get off beforehand through the foreplay and/or oral sex or we just rub ourselves during intercourse, or if all else fails, we just get ourselves off afterwards.
So how does a women "get off" when she has sex.
Avoid missionary.
Pretty much any other position allows easy access to manually stimulate a woman's clit.
Missionary you tend to be forced to use your hands for balance, and only using one for balance tends to create rhythm problems
use your hand to stimulate the clit. it's as simple as that really.
the only way the clit can really be stimulated by the penis is if she is on top. she can lean in certain directions so that i can apply pressure to it.
but other than that, just use your hand, or have her use her hand. it's the best way.
GForce - check out the sticky posts The Four Hotspots, The Program, and Body Worship. There is ALOT you can do. Focusing upon her clitoris and/or your penis is to limit your vision.
I have never gotten off during sex. But there are toys that you can get, although you may be too young to buy them, but you can get a "sex ring" at spencer's or online with a walmart pre-pay card. They look a little girly but they have "antennaes" that rub against the girl's clit and vibrates. I got one the other day and haven't tried it yet with my boyfriend, but the other toys I have that are like that work :) Good luck. ;)
and if you need condoms condomhall.com is a cool site to go to. discreet shipping easy pay options.
Well, I don't know if this is true or not, but I always heard that there are no nerve endings in the vagina itself. I find that hard to believe though because I do feel my partner when he is inside me. I don't get much pleasure from simple thrusting but I do get a small amount of pleasure from it.
I've been told that once you have given birth, you will understand why there are no nerves in the vagina.
What you feel comes from in and around the entrance and underlying areas surrounding the vagina.