Ok.. well i posted the whole deal a/b the girl being on top.. i read all fo yall's reponses to it and i tried it.... Maybe it isnt for me because it was really weird and I couldnt do it. Does it take getting used to or something? It didnt feel right..i only did it for a few seconds and i told my b/f i didnt like it, and he was totally cool with it, he said if I had to take it slow, that it was ok, he'd work with me..
Im still afraid...
Maybe its cause im self conscience (sp?) :(
I know I'm pretty self concious whenever I try the whole on top thing. I don't know if it's just that I feel exposed or what, but I definatly know where you are coming from Sweetness.
yes.. i agree.. being on top i begin to worry that my bf can see all of my flaws in that position.... but really he doesnt seem to be focused on that but i cant help but to think it... i personnally wouldnt give up on the position all together, but its ok to have stuff that u enjoy more or less doing ,
Each couple must work out what works for them. I love being on top but recognize that both must be a bit trim for it to really work well.
i tried being on top but i couldn't do it, i mean, literally, i just couldn't. Maybe it was the positioning or something but i couldn't move properly..
and this much time later, after more experiences i still can't do it!
trust me hun, its the same with me. I hate being on top.
Its just not comfortable for me...i guess its normal...