ok im a normal 13 year old, i masterbate, havent gone as far as a blow job and still a virgin, now i find at school when ever i sit for a long period of time i get a bonner and i wont even be thinking about girls, and im dead sure about my sexuality. So i dont get it, maybe this is a unique problem and there isnt really any advice to be given, im just scared taht the teacher is gonna call me up to her desk or somthing and im gonna have a stiffy it haunts me so far ive been lucky. is this somthing all kids my age are going through at the moment? please help and if you cant find any advice then advice on how to get rid of a bonner fast.
Sun, 08/22/2004 - 08:32
#1
Stiff a lot
it happens to almost everybody whether they admit it or not, nothing you can do about it
well i am 17 and all i got to say is there isnt much u can do but a suggestion is u can try whereing baggy shirts or have a news paper handy.
yo lol im 14 almost 15 i know what your goin thru god dont u just hate it your like ohh crap i hope no1 sees it and u try to take your mind off it so it will go away but u cant my advice umm if your school dosent have to tuck your shirt in use your shirt to cover it till it goes away and if your school makes u tuck your shirt in well if u find an answer to that let me know cause me school this years is just making us tuck our shirts in but hey its puberty that what u do when goin thru puberty ohh and also if u thing thats embarising try goin to a christian school with chappel and a lot of prayers lol
Hi there Scout and welcome!!
Oh boy! The dreaded "boner in class"...lol. Yes, we've all (well, the guys here, anyway) been there. You are PERFECTLY normal. That's the good news... the bad news is there isn't much you can do about it. Just try to make Jr. as inconspicuous as possible (pointing him straight up sometimes helps and maybe wearing jockey shorts instead of boxers).
Don't worry too much about it. It does happen to all guys and, as teenagers, it can be a little embarrassing. Just keep telling yourself that all this means is that everything is in good working order. I still occassionally get the rogue woody, but at 36 not nearly as often...lol. *sigh* Ah, youth...
Take care.
You're right: you are a normal 13 year old.
Relax. Your body has a mind of it's own... my guess is the if you did get called on, you'd lose it fast.
This too shall pass, but in the meantime you could explore wearing "snug" underwear or a jockstrap that will keep things relatively under control so it won't be quite so obvious.