hi,
first of all I can't really get it up with my girl, without a little bit of masturbation.
once I do, and I'm insider her, she loves a steady hard and fast rhythm.
THis gets me off really fast.
I would use the squeeze technique, but she wants a steady rhythm, so I can't use that.
Are there any other techniques that I can use not to cum too soon?
thanks!
--Josh
Sat, 03/03/2007 - 17:21
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a steady pace
Hello Josh,
I'd like to offer a couple of points of insight into this.
> first of all I can't really get it up with my girl, without a little bit of masturbation.
How much time are the two of you spending just fooling around and making out?
Please read the information in the following Sticky post thread:
INTERCOURSE / ORGASMS / and the gentle art of Humping
Please begin reading with the third and then the first posts in that order.
While your girlfriend may enjoy the enthusiastic and intense stroking for the simple pleasure of it all, she may also be under the misconception that it is the only way for her to attain an orgasm. This assumption is incorrect. As noted in the posts, very few sexual positions make it possible for a woman to reliably achieve a climax from stroking alone; therefore, what most skilled, knowledgeable, carring partners do is to reach around and finger the clitoris while engaged in intercourse.
> I would use the squeeze technique, but she wants a steady rhythm, so I can't use that. Are there any other techniques that I can use not to cum too soon?
Please read this post and learn how to gain mastery over your climaxes and how to control them. Work the exercises together as a team as practicing requires her active participation.
Squeeze & Training Exercise for Controling Premature Ejaculation
I believe the two of you will have a happier more rewarding sex life after you learn more about how to achieve it. It is also important to understand the dynamics involved as well as going about all this in an ordered step-by-step manner.
I hope this is of help. Got questions? Feel free to ask.
excellent point,
here and I don't spend nearly enough time fooling around under the covers, and I've gotten my best erections from that.
I definately need to tell her.
And I will read the articles that you linked to.
Thank you.
And yes, I live in a town without ballroom dancing..
It's not a comfortable place for me.
Anywyas
thanks!
--Joshua
you could always empty the chaimber first
What I do is find an angle that doesn't feel as good for me and I go with that. This way I last longer while still providing the steady rhythm.