Me and my girlfriend have had sex for about 6 times in the past month. Everytime we foreplay, i get an erection, but when its time to pull our pants down and put a comdom on, my penis gets soft and she needs to touch it for it to get hard. And during intercourse it usually gets softer and doesnt stay hard. ALSO, i can only last for about 3 minutes :[ i would like to control it for a whole longer time. Is there anyway i can stay hard for longer and control my cumming? Please reply back with help and advice. Thank you so much. ALSO, whenever my girlfriend gives me head, i never stay hard and get soft. Why is this? All replys are accepted and appreciated. Thank you again.