me and my boyfriend are 15 and have been having sex for 4 months now (hes my 1st sexual partner, i'm his 2nd) but the past few times we've tried he has either gone limp when he tries to put on the condom or goes limp once he has been inside me for a for a few minutes. At first i was worried i wasn't attractive enough or bad in bed etc but he reassures me there's no problem in that area.
i never make an issue out of it but he always gets really embarrased and ashamed. i tell him not to worry it doesn't matter he shouldn't worry about it etc, but he always gets so dejected (and angry - never at me) it upsets me.
so i was just wondering - is there anything actually wrong or is there anything i can do to help him or whatever?
sorry if this repeats former posts but i looked and couldn't find an answer
any help would be greatly appreciated
Thanks
Performance anxiety, hes only 15, im guessing hes just nervous. Try sticking to oral sex for a few times.
Read through the posts (stickies) under new to sex. It's most likely performance anxiety & he needs to relax. The more it bothers him the more it will happen.
I to had that problem until someone told me about penis tension rings. Once your boyfriend gets an erection, simply slip a tension ring, they come in several sizes, down to the base of his penis. This will help keep the blood in his penis and allow you to complete the act. The tension ring should not be left on for more that an hour.
You would be amazed at how many of these are removed from sore, swollen, purple penis' in ER's. If necessary, they can help; if not, they are not sex toys.