Hi I'm 21yr old male and fit im only short at 5'4 and have a just below average penis size which I frequntly am paranoid about while in bed with my girl friend. She says its fine but its not like she is going to say other wise it also has major influences on be being able to peform in bed and keep my erection because all through sex its all i think about like " is she feeling it,does it feel good for her' so im wondering if there is any advice any female readers could give me that would help me out and perhaps give me more conferdence in other ways whilst haveing sexual intercourse that would make me forget about my penis size.Also I have a another question regarding giving head to my girlfriend sometimes she mentions that it tickels but in a bad way how do i stop this and make it a better experience for her?. Thanks for taking the time to read my letter .JOSH THE AUSSIE FROM DOWN UNDER.
Wed, 02/01/2006 - 22:29
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> I'm 21yr old male and fit im only short at 5'4 and have a just below average penis size which I frequntly am paranoid about while in bed with my girl friend...any advice any female readers could give me that would help me out and perhaps give me more conferdence in other ways whilst haveing sexual intercourse that would make me forget about my penis size.
G'day, Josh,
Your questions are asked by others every week; ya just gotta know that you are not alone in your thoughts and perspectives. For you and the other readers new this week who have the same concerns, I give you my oft repeated sagacious answers.
The following are important truths:
First, penis size is a guy thing.
Second, control of a guy's arousal, anticipation, sexual excitement and tension, via a penis is a gal thing.
Third, penis size is a function of ethnicity and genitics. Much of the world's male population are on the short side of what is a wide range considered "normal".
Fourth, women would much prefer a knowledgeable, skilled, caring, compassionate, lover who knows what to do with what Mother Nature gave him.
Fifth, and of concern to women is that a penis of whatever lenghth be long enough to grasp in order to use as a combination throttle and brake over which they wield control of the responses, above.
> She says its fine but its not like she is going to say other wise it also has major influences on be being able to peform in bed
This is your fragile male ego talking and with thoughts like this you will find it difficult to build an honest, trusting, truthful relationship. IF she says that the size of your endowment is fine, you would be foolish to question the statement.
As for confidence, while it is true that others can help you build confidence, it is my belief that confidence is acquired through achievement and the accumulation of several little succeses.
Sixth, with the above in mind, believe your way to success.
Thank you for your honest I have been reading up on retarded ejactulation and I'm hopeing this is not the source of my problem also if I was to stop masturbating will the highten the feeling of sexual intercourse sometimes i find my self not feeling and joy or "extasy" or even feelings of any kind whilst have sexual intercourse I wish to fix this problem so any extra advice that could be givin would be muchly thanked. josh from down under
Feeling anxious can also add to the situation, I've been there myself. You just gotta relax and believe in yourself.