Well ive been dating this one girl for nearly a year now and I'm pretty sure we're both ready to have sex but I don't exactly wanna say 'lets have sex'. What do i do?
Fri, 04/13/2007 - 16:36
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After a year of dating, I find it hard to believe the matter has not come up. Just bring it up as a discussion. Ask her what she thinks about it. What are her thoughts?
"Implied Consent" is another approach. Do an advanced search using my name and this as a key word to bring up more information on the topic.
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me and my bf talk about this sort of stuff. we take it by steps so nothing happens that we arent ready for. and when we are ready to go further we discuss whats goin to happen next, in a way. so like sera300, bring it up in a discussion
well you'll never know unless you ask, just bring it up but dont force it on her (the convo i mean)
every long term relationship should have talked about it