Me and my girlfriend have been trying to do the standing position whilst having sex. But we have been encountering some problems.
She is very limber (I think thats the word) so this isn't the problem.
Its more height thats the problem, she is a bit too short for me to put my penis inside her when standing.
We tried to overcome this by making her stand on something, but then she is too high, we just can't seem to work it out. I have tried lifting her but she is very uncomfortable with me supporting her weight, (she isn't fat or anything atall but just feels unsafe when someone picks her up),
Any ideas on what else we could do to try and make standing up possible?
Try this link
For some people it just doesn't work
I don't feel comfortable either trying to do it like that.... and yes she can wrap her legs around your waist...and you support her..but it's not comfortable and you are all tense trying to hang on...and can't relax to enjoy anything.
Standing Positions
Thanks Demon. Yeh, we have tried the dancer position, but she just seems too short, my penis ends up prodding her belly button :|
We have also tried against a wall, so that she doesn't have to hang on as much because the wall takes some of her weight, but its still awkward because by me holding her, I can't thrust.
Any other ideas anyone, as we really want to try standing up.
Stadning takes energy! Most of us want to use that energy for the activity at hand and long ago gave up on standing.
I mean those are the most common ones...and the other thread mentions her standing on something..which you said you've done...
Maybe find a smaller something for her to stand on.
Plus, sometimes it just doesn't work.... not really missing anything I wouldn't imagine, lol...
when my b/f wants to try positions like that, that are either not comfortable, difficult to do...etc... just ruins the mood for me.
[QUOTE=Brandye;182360]Stadning takes energy! Most of us want to use that energy for the activity at hand and long ago gave up on standing.[/QUOTE]
LOL
yeah what she said
Energy isn't a problem for us because we are a young couple.
Finding her a smaller thing to stand on is hard because things in the room are too tall (bed, sofa, cabinets).
By not being able to do it, it doesn't make it a turn off for either of us, it just makes it more challenging to do it. Looks like we might have to come up with some new ideas then.
You don't need something as tall as a bed or sofa... you need something more like a step stool... small box..or something.
Like someone mentioned..the only standing position I've even really been able and comfortable to do.. it just doggy but standing up.
I guess just keep trying and see what you come up w/.
And whilst we ar here...what the hell is spooning?
I have heard it mentioned but have no ideas what it is.
I also thought maybe if it's just a few inches you need... then maybe she could wear some tall high heels
Spooning
If you go to this link and the one before of all the positions.. they have tons of them you can try... in different variations.
I'm with demonbuttercup, only standing doggy style for me too. My boyfriend is very tall as well and we've tried him entering from the front standing many times and it just didn't work. If she's light enough you can pick her up and have her wrap her legs around you, but that takes A LOT of energy so drink a Red Bull and eat a Power Bar first!
If you want to try standing holding her up, I suggest you start on the bed. Its very hard to try to get in and hold her up. When I tried it, we started with her lying on the bed at the edge and me standing. After i went in and she wrapped her arms and legs around me, I was able to pull her up and hold her pretty easily. It wasn't all that comfortable though.