Hey guys and gals, I need some opinions here, but really I'm just asking Brandye. She seems to know everything...so anwyay heres' my problem. I've been working on stamina for a while but I'm not seeing much improvement. I can masturbate and control that really well. But as soon as me and my girlfriend get together I kinda lose it, and I need to know (from a woman's point of view), how long should I work towards being able to last? And how can I do that? I've read all the posts I could find on the site for the last while. I want to last long enough for her, and I'd hate to be the minute man she always remembers for the wrong reasons. Any techniques that they haven't already covered that ya can share with me?
Thu, 06/16/2005 - 21:15
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Stamina
Yeah, I'm kinda curious about this too. I'd like to hold out longer than 5 minutes without having to focus on it.
Well, recognize that, equipped as I am, I can last all night and into the next day! But I have had male partners come as I rolled condoms onto them or as they barely touch the tip to me. The good news is that these guys were usually young enough that we could just keep on. Too many men, and especially women, think that once he ejaculates, it is all over. As a teen, I always jacked my partner off during foreplay. There is more available. So, one suggestion is to just let it go and continue.
Many men find that certain positions accelerate their orgasm. For instance, on top a male has many muscles all tensed up holding himself in position. The more relaxed, the less likely to pop off prematurely. Experiment with other positions.
Go to google and enter "squeeze technique." It usually involves the woman on top (which I prefer) and requires her assistance. Fun assistance. As you practice this, you will develop more staying power.
End the hangup and get on with it. We women are rarely disappointed with an early orgasm as long as you do not leave us high and dry. Or low and wet, as the case may be.