Female Ejaculation is achievable - it just takes relaxation on her part and practice, practice and practice which I am sure you are willing to do. Stroke her G=Spot while doing cunnilingus for example. Mind you do your foreplay first, of course.

I've seen clips of this before, and to be honest it seems odd. Granted, I'm in the "never witnessed it" camp, so I already know my opinions are worthless.

Having said that, everything I read "here" seems very gentle, and easy, and delicate to an extent. I read about foreplay, and preparations, and fingers with "come hither" motions. These people must be serious, as who uses the word "hither" but people that know what's going on? ;)

But these videos, they look almost barbaric, or well frankly it's more like porn thinly veiled as education. For starters, all the women are professional porn stars. Not exactly what I'd call the average Suzy Homemaker that you're trying this out on. Plus, when they get going, there's nothing "hither" about it! They get their hand locked in place, and are basically jerking the woman up and down by her pelvis, incredibly fast and hard looking too! Like you can see the guys muscles all bulged out, and his pace actually slows over the 30-40 seconds it takes her to squirt, like his damn arm is tiring of that tempo! If he yanked the bone right out and held it aloft as a trophy it would fit right in the video. I'm talking Shaken Babymaker Syndrome!

So my question to you adept and avid squirters. Is this technique for real? I men I know it is in the sense that the girls squirted and weren't screaming from pain, but again they're professional porn people. They do a lot of stuff that lay people aren't going to do. Like EEK just said "stroke her G-Spot". This sure as hell isn't a stroke from this video.

Yes, it IS real. I've had 2 wives, and 2 other women with whom I have had sex. Neither of my wives ever squirted--my current wife is non-orgasmic, and although my late wife was very multi-orgasmic, I do not believe she ever squirted. The first GF who squirted for me was a long time ago--before anyone had ever heard of such a thing. She'd never done it before (we were both in our early 40s at the time), and we didn't exactly know what had happened, but she did know that it was great. We could not often repeat it, but we got few chances in any case. The second GF was in her early 50s and had also never had one before--her first one happened spontaneously, but we did soon figure out how to make it happen with some regularity. It does happen. It takes time and specific stimulation. But it is not pee, it can absolutely soak everything, and it is very real and totally different from other orgasms. I have also seen those videos of porn couples squirting, and although those do seem a bit rougher in technique than I experienced (the "jerking the woman up and down by her pelvis incredibly fast and hard"), it is similar. I wish I could have more practice, but the former squirting GF is married to another guy now, and I'm married to a woman who will not even allow me to manually stimulate her internally. So I guess my talents are wasted...
Michael

Most people, men and women, are in Firmus' category of "never witnessed." Because not all, nor even a majority of women, have ever squirted. It may or may not be achievable for the rest of us but it seems to have become the holy grail of porn sited and those selling dreams on the internet. It is currently believed that female ejaculate comes from Skene's Glands (peri-urethral glands) that have openings just beside the urethra, in all women, and along the length of the urethra, in some women. These glands are considered to be analogous to the prostate in men.

They are the most likely source for the non-urine ejaculate that some women produce and their development in an individual woman may determine whether or not she ejaculates. I never have nor have any of my female partners. The relationship to the G-Spot is questionable, though greatly exaggerated by websites promulgating both. It could be that stimulating the Skene's Glands through the anterior wall of the vagina and the slightly rough area described by some could be stimulating the Skene's Glands directly. It is also possible stimulation of this spot moves the clitoral hood sufficiently to stimulate orgasm.

There is much not understood about the G-Spot (I am glad mine functions) and about female ejaculation. If it happens, great; if not, sex can still be fun.

But is not being able to squirt really such a bad thing? Yes, its sexy and all but that's one more thing that one would have to spend cleaning up later.

I had read that on a different site once. A lady was very much wishing she'd go back to not having one every time, for the sake of the hassle of it.