I think plenty of girls are interested in squirting.

The key to squirting is to make sure the girl is totally relaxed (massages before will help). Focus on lots of G-Spot stimulation and just keep working at it.

Good luck!

P.S. You might want to check out some of the other threads on this topic.

Some women squirt; some do not; some do some of the time; most of us never do. Websites with an axe to grind and which link G-Spot to ejaculation (nonsense) notwithstanding, nothing you can do will "make" her squirt.

[QUOTE=Brandye;277679]Some women squirt; some do not; some do some of the time; most of us never do. Websites with an axe to grind and which link G-Spot to ejaculation (nonsense) notwithstanding, nothing you can do will "make" her squirt.[/QUOTE]

I'm going to have to disagree. I think all women have the ability to squirt. It may come easier for some women than it does for others, but I think every woman has the ability.

I think saying that some women can't squirt is just like saying that there are certain women who can't achieve orgasm or who don't have g-spots.

Squirting is difficult, but practice makes perfect.

Possibly all women are capable of ejaculating. But let's keep in mind that women just don't need to ejaculate to have great orgasms. Many never gush fluid. And there's no proof (yet) of this capability in all of us. The entire subject of female ejaculation appears to be still covered in myths in the scientific world. Though anyone who has ever experienced it, will know it is possible. Interesting thread about this: http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/pleasing-her/19807-what-we-know-g-spot-e...

I'd like to emphasize that the thing of worth is the AMAZING EARTH-QUAKING ORGASM! :) Not the fluid. That's a (possible) side-effect.

Before techniques: Sex starts in the mind. So lets start with the mindset to receive pleasure. Personally; though I squirt more often when I orgasm through penetration than not, it's not so much the specific action. It's the intensity of the orgasm that makes me ejaculate. And the intensity comes through not forcing it. Letting go. Just being in the moment. Enjoying every sensation to the max. Without any pretence. Allowing an amazing orgasm build up inside and surrendering to that feeling. Which is only something she can do.

What you can do as her lover is please her in every way she likes. Your focus should be on giving her pleasure, not so much a squirting orgasm, anything else may (will) follow. And don't forget to enjoy yourself too, since you're not doing chores ;) Find her hotspots and slowly work towards them. Which can be anything and everything; the entire body is a potential erogenous zone! Massaging, long caresses, things that make her body open up and susceptible to more stimulation. Proceeding to firmer and more precise stimulation. By the time you're going for penetration, she should basically be clawing for it. Be tentative to her responses and anticipate on them.

For building arousal, threads such as http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/married-long-term-relationships/23945-pr... will give you insight. For more info on internal hotspots, read http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/new-sex/26563-four-hotspots.html, also by EEK. There's also a thread that specifically discusses g-spot-orgasm-techniques: http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/pleasing-her/27306-g-spot-technique-orga... I've added some personal notes on page 5.

Sure things may take time. Getting to know eachother's bodies. Reading eachother cues. Individually tailoring techniques. Getting accustomed to new sensations. Losing feelings that put a brake on it; which could be anything from being self-conscious, over-thinking, being scared or nervous, wanting orgasm to happen too much, etc.

But: Difficult? I'm sorry, but are we doing our homework to pass a test or having joyful and pleasurable sex? :rolleyes:
It's a great adventure to be enjoyed every step of the way! :)

You may "think" all you want, Mystik, but there are matters of fact that stand in the way of your thinking. Little is really known about the function of the peri-urethral (Skene's) gland in women. It has only been a couple decades that we have been aware of their, in some women, having openings along the urethra rather than just beside the urethral opening. It has been even less time that we have realized that these gland are analogues to the prostate in men. As with many things that are confusing about the human body, we are not quite sure. Same for the G-Spot, though I am very happy to have had mine discovered. That, however, does not make it real for all women.

It seems like with the lot of these squirt threads, this activity is being treated like a magic trick. Like if I poke a woman in the right spot it'll happen regardless, beyond her control. I thing most of the comments and videos should have a disclaimer like "how to make a woman squirt if, you know, she already knows how to squirt in the first place."

To be honest, as a guy I get kind of offended by these, as they have a lot of implicational baggage along with that, for example, A) my wife is "broken" because she can't/doesn't and B) I just don't know what I'm doing. To me, I put squirting on the same experience as whistling. It's very neat if you can do it, and/or do it well, but it's not like you can't enjoy music without it.

I think we'll all know when the day comes that there's really a sure fire way for this to happen, as stock in laundry detergent will go through the roof. :)

Wonderful post, firmus! It is stuff such as this that sets up unrealistic expectations in women, and men too, that, truly, make it less likely that any one particular woman will become sexually responsive. When we are constantly told that there is another and better way, that may or may not be accessible, we are also being told of our own personal inadequacy.

We already know that about a quarter of all women are non-orgasmic. Our efforts are better placed in helping join the club rather than making the club unrealistically joinable.

Yo, dude.... lay her down, open her legs and squeeze her head... she'll eventually squirt
something !!!

Squirting is difficult, but practice makes perfect.

Can I just throw in there that I personally do ejaculate and while it feels like a good release, it's pretty inconvenient...It's not gross or anything but I'd rather not have to put towels down and stuff, you know?

So I get a bit uncomfortable when people treat it like some sort of holy grail of sex. I have it and it's... just okay. People who don't ejaculate only think of it in terms of fantasy. But it's a real thing, like crapping and sneezing and all those other fun bodily functions, you know? It just happens, and it's neither here nor there

The ways our bodies are, just are.

At any rate; if she wants to ejaculate all she needs to do is give in to the sensation of needing to pee as she approaches orgasm. If she empties her bladder first it will be (mostly) not pee.