Each of us is responsible for our own orgasms. We do not make them happen or give them away to others. All we can do is to help our partner achieve them. The same goes for squirting. Some women squirt, others sometimes, many never do. It is not something you control.
Please understand that making love is not what we do to each other; rather, what we do with and for each other in partnership. This said, talk to each other, explore, and learn together.
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I squirt if i am about to climax and rub my nipples really fast or if my partner suck my niples a lot. Has to be 5 seconds before i climax. So my nipples are important when i get to the edge. Maybe that works for others or just me, not sure. I dreamed it once too and i woke up and my nightie was soaked. Super strange.
I know a girl that can squirt. She has told me she does not know exactly how she does it. But it does take effort she has to make herself do it. So she does not always bother. But if she wants to make it special she can squirt across the room. I have seen her do it and found it incredibly erotic.
[QUOTE=tiffers;277007]I know a girl that can squirt. She has told me she does not know exactly how she does it. But it does take effort she has to make herself do it. So she does not always bother. But if she wants to make it special she can squirt across the room. I have seen her do it and found it incredibly erotic.[/QUOTE]
Mine only goes up to my stomach but if i put my legs over my head it hits my face. That lady you talked about is incredible, it must look incredible :p
[QUOTE=molly_bikinier;277012]Mine only goes up to my stomach but if i put my legs over my head it hits my face. That lady you talked about is incredible, it must look incredible :p[/QUOTE]
yea its realy cool to see i have to admit. I wish i could do it better myself. It seems like a cool skill to have
I was with one woman who could squirt, and although she was in her fifties she had never done it before prior to us sort of stumbling on it. She actually had no idea she could, and no idea how it happened, but I did do things with her that she never had done to her before. It was very erotic at first, but sort of got to be a drag because it was super messy. I believe it was most successful in positions which gave her direct, rapid and simultaneous G-spot and clitoral stimulation.
Michael
Watch it, Tiff! There are two high volume contributors who are women in that age range! My current (male) squeeze is ten years older! We can manage quite well, thank you.
The data actually indicate that many women have a sexual rebirth after menopause. No more menses (though I miss mine) and no fears of pregnancy and a relaxed, mature view of life and sex. That all adds up to renewed sexual vigour for many. Of my patients over the years the oldest woman to achieve her first orgasm was 53 and she seemingly went on a tear to make up for lost time.
I still do 150 miles a week on my bicycle and am able to respond at will to either man or woman.
Now, on to squirting: My suspicions are that about ten percent of all women ever experience ejaculation. We do not know all the variables because the functioning of the peri-urethral glands (Skene's) is still not completely understood. It seems that the internet has spread the word on the G-Spot (we still cannot prove it exists) and many of those (mostly bogus) sites that promote the G-Spot have also promulgated female ehaculation as the epitome of climax. How many women are actually squirting (rare) and how many are leaking urine (common) is not known.
Now, I'll await my favourite cat to arrive with her claws out.
[QUOTE=mikkiji;277021]I was with one woman who could squirt, and although she was in her fifties she had never done it before prior to us sort of stumbling on it. She actually had no idea she could, and no idea how it happened, but I did do things with her that she never had done to her before. It was very erotic at first, but sort of got to be a drag because it was super messy. I believe it was most successful in positions which gave her direct, rapid and simultaneous G-spot and clitoral stimulation.
Michael[/QUOTE]
wow in her 50s!. I was not aware women that old could still realy manage much of an orgasum. Let alone one that strong as a squirting effect. I wonder if that is average. If all women that age can still have that sexual potency. I know guys that old are generaly not capable of much. Atleast that is what I have heard. I assumed the same was true of women. Well I am only a teenager, but I hope when I am 50+ I can still function that well!.
[QUOTE=Brandye;277036]Watch it, Tiff! There are two high volume contributors who are women in that age range! My current (male) squeeze is ten years older! We can manage quite well, thank you.
The data actually indicate that many women have a sexual rebirth after menopause. No more menses (though I miss mine) and no fears of pregnancy and a relaxed, mature view of life and sex. That all adds up to renewed sexual vigour for many. Of my patients over the years the oldest woman to achieve her first orgasm was 53 and she seemingly went on a tear to make up for lost time.
I still do 150 miles a week on my bicycle and am able to respond at will to either man or woman.
Sorry Brandye I had no idea and I did not mean to offend anyone. But I do think that is Cool. You say you bike 150 miles a week?. Does staying in good shape help stay so sexualy active. At the very least keeping your energy and vitality up must be a benefit to sexuality. Mind you I may never look at my grandmother the same again hehe.
Yes, proper body conditioning adds greatly to the sex life of both men and women. Assuming grandma is about my age, she is likely still active in the sack.
No offense, hun, just yanking your chain. And maybe expanding your education a bit.
And just to clarify with some personal experience, fitness affecting sex life not just for "old people", but for everyone. I'm 37 (please don't say that's old, lol) and within the last 6 months I have vastly changed my weight and fitness. I've lost 65lbs and went from couch to 14 mile runs.
This made a very large difference in my sexual wellbeing. Not only from the obvious cardio/stamina standpoint but also from a self-confidence and self-appreciation standpoint. I no longer feel like a fat slob hulking around over my wife. :)
I was lucky enough to witness and experience squirting for the first time recently and I have to say I was extremely turned on.
I recently started dating a former lesbian who wanted to explore dating men for the first time; we agreed to not jump into sex which I think really worked in our favor. Sleeping over for the first night after making out, she continually woke me up more and more worked up and sequentially taking it a step further with heavier and heavier foreplay/petting. I'd say it was a good 4 hours of this cycle and build up that culminated in my manually stimulating her g-spot. When she had her orgasm, I immediately identified the gushing warmth over my hand and I gotta say I LOVED IT! She didn't know what had just occurred, and after I explained to her she was actually shocked and somewhat embarrassed because it had never happened before. She said the combination of foreplay and something exciting and new had really turned her on to a point she hadn't experienced before and that might have been it.
We've been trying to repeat the result without success but there also hasn't been a time where we can accomplish such a significant length of foreplay.
Each of us is responsible for our own orgasms. We do not make them happen or give them away to others. All we can do is to help our partner achieve them. The same goes for squirting. Some women squirt, others sometimes, many never do. It is not something you control.
Please understand that making love is not what we do to each other; rather, what we do with and for each other in partnership. This said, talk to each other, explore, and learn together.
Welcome to the SI101 Board and its Forums. I hope you will enjoy participating. Please begin by familiarizing yourself with the Index found at the top of the main page. It contains links to helpful informative insightful, as well as how-to articles that discuss the most common questions and concerns people ask about. In addition, please click on the site's Home Page for even more information. I recommend that you read each of these articles and add the information to what you already know. Knowledge is empowering. Thank you for your question.
Please do not use texting shorthand. For many of the people contributing to this site, English is a second language and trying to decipher cryptic letter combinations is difficult if not impossible. In addition, it is just plain rude to all.
-doc
SQUARTING
Oh my god, rofl
I thought this was going to be about some kind of ejaculating with farty noises phenomenon. Oh dear.
[QUOTE=llovell;276330]SQUARTING
Oh my god, rofl
I thought this was going to be about some kind of ejaculating with farty noises phenomenon. Oh dear.[/QUOTE]
lol. Squating and squirting or squating and farting? oh man
I squirt if i am about to climax and rub my nipples really fast or if my partner suck my niples a lot. Has to be 5 seconds before i climax. So my nipples are important when i get to the edge. Maybe that works for others or just me, not sure. I dreamed it once too and i woke up and my nightie was soaked. Super strange.
I know a girl that can squirt. She has told me she does not know exactly how she does it. But it does take effort she has to make herself do it. So she does not always bother. But if she wants to make it special she can squirt across the room. I have seen her do it and found it incredibly erotic.
[QUOTE=tiffers;277007]I know a girl that can squirt. She has told me she does not know exactly how she does it. But it does take effort she has to make herself do it. So she does not always bother. But if she wants to make it special she can squirt across the room. I have seen her do it and found it incredibly erotic.[/QUOTE]
Mine only goes up to my stomach but if i put my legs over my head it hits my face. That lady you talked about is incredible, it must look incredible :p
[QUOTE=molly_bikinier;277012]Mine only goes up to my stomach but if i put my legs over my head it hits my face. That lady you talked about is incredible, it must look incredible :p[/QUOTE]
yea its realy cool to see i have to admit. I wish i could do it better myself. It seems like a cool skill to have
I was with one woman who could squirt, and although she was in her fifties she had never done it before prior to us sort of stumbling on it. She actually had no idea she could, and no idea how it happened, but I did do things with her that she never had done to her before. It was very erotic at first, but sort of got to be a drag because it was super messy. I believe it was most successful in positions which gave her direct, rapid and simultaneous G-spot and clitoral stimulation.
Michael
[QUOTE=tiffers;277014]yea its realy cool to see i have to admit. I wish i could do it better myself. It seems like a cool skill to have[/QUOTE]
lol yep a cool skill haha. I think it haapens to me most if wear nice lingerie.
Watch it, Tiff! There are two high volume contributors who are women in that age range! My current (male) squeeze is ten years older! We can manage quite well, thank you.
The data actually indicate that many women have a sexual rebirth after menopause. No more menses (though I miss mine) and no fears of pregnancy and a relaxed, mature view of life and sex. That all adds up to renewed sexual vigour for many. Of my patients over the years the oldest woman to achieve her first orgasm was 53 and she seemingly went on a tear to make up for lost time.
I still do 150 miles a week on my bicycle and am able to respond at will to either man or woman.
Now, on to squirting: My suspicions are that about ten percent of all women ever experience ejaculation. We do not know all the variables because the functioning of the peri-urethral glands (Skene's) is still not completely understood. It seems that the internet has spread the word on the G-Spot (we still cannot prove it exists) and many of those (mostly bogus) sites that promote the G-Spot have also promulgated female ehaculation as the epitome of climax. How many women are actually squirting (rare) and how many are leaking urine (common) is not known.
Now, I'll await my favourite cat to arrive with her claws out.
[QUOTE=mikkiji;277021]I was with one woman who could squirt, and although she was in her fifties she had never done it before prior to us sort of stumbling on it. She actually had no idea she could, and no idea how it happened, but I did do things with her that she never had done to her before. It was very erotic at first, but sort of got to be a drag because it was super messy. I believe it was most successful in positions which gave her direct, rapid and simultaneous G-spot and clitoral stimulation.
Michael[/QUOTE]
wow in her 50s!. I was not aware women that old could still realy manage much of an orgasum. Let alone one that strong as a squirting effect. I wonder if that is average. If all women that age can still have that sexual potency. I know guys that old are generaly not capable of much. Atleast that is what I have heard. I assumed the same was true of women. Well I am only a teenager, but I hope when I am 50+ I can still function that well!.
[QUOTE=Brandye;277036]Watch it, Tiff! There are two high volume contributors who are women in that age range! My current (male) squeeze is ten years older! We can manage quite well, thank you.
The data actually indicate that many women have a sexual rebirth after menopause. No more menses (though I miss mine) and no fears of pregnancy and a relaxed, mature view of life and sex. That all adds up to renewed sexual vigour for many. Of my patients over the years the oldest woman to achieve her first orgasm was 53 and she seemingly went on a tear to make up for lost time.
I still do 150 miles a week on my bicycle and am able to respond at will to either man or woman.
Sorry Brandye I had no idea and I did not mean to offend anyone. But I do think that is Cool. You say you bike 150 miles a week?. Does staying in good shape help stay so sexualy active. At the very least keeping your energy and vitality up must be a benefit to sexuality. Mind you I may never look at my grandmother the same again hehe.
Yes, proper body conditioning adds greatly to the sex life of both men and women. Assuming grandma is about my age, she is likely still active in the sack.
No offense, hun, just yanking your chain. And maybe expanding your education a bit.
And just to clarify with some personal experience, fitness affecting sex life not just for "old people", but for everyone. I'm 37 (please don't say that's old, lol) and within the last 6 months I have vastly changed my weight and fitness. I've lost 65lbs and went from couch to 14 mile runs.
This made a very large difference in my sexual wellbeing. Not only from the obvious cardio/stamina standpoint but also from a self-confidence and self-appreciation standpoint. I no longer feel like a fat slob hulking around over my wife. :)
I second firmus' post above. I'm only 24 and losing 90lbs has improved all aspects of my life.
I was lucky enough to witness and experience squirting for the first time recently and I have to say I was extremely turned on.
I recently started dating a former lesbian who wanted to explore dating men for the first time; we agreed to not jump into sex which I think really worked in our favor. Sleeping over for the first night after making out, she continually woke me up more and more worked up and sequentially taking it a step further with heavier and heavier foreplay/petting. I'd say it was a good 4 hours of this cycle and build up that culminated in my manually stimulating her g-spot. When she had her orgasm, I immediately identified the gushing warmth over my hand and I gotta say I LOVED IT! She didn't know what had just occurred, and after I explained to her she was actually shocked and somewhat embarrassed because it had never happened before. She said the combination of foreplay and something exciting and new had really turned her on to a point she hadn't experienced before and that might have been it.
We've been trying to repeat the result without success but there also hasn't been a time where we can accomplish such a significant length of foreplay.
I can make my wife squirt when ever I play with her or even when I am having intercourse with her. Just got to her spots.