Hi everyone. Long time no post.
Got an excuse though, got married. :D
Anyways, got a question for the resident doctors and experienced people.
What can I do to avoid my sperm to get out of her vagina immediately after sex? As far as I know, this is not a disease related condition (may be mistaken though) but it really is getting on her nerves and making the cuddling after a bit messy and highly annoying.
So would know of anything that triggers it, is there a way of avoiding it?
Cheers to all
Welcome back to the Scottish Portuguee and congratulations on your marriage.
You cannot avoid the dripping. The semen, about 14ml or 1 Tablespoon, is ejaculated in a glob. It immediately begins to become liquid and will be completely liquid in 15 minutes or so. This makes it easier for the sperm to swim away. About half the semn is absorbed through the woman's vaginal walls and about half leaks out. There are up to 400 million sperm in each ejaculation so losing a few makes little difference.
This liquifying semen is responsible for the infamous "wet-spot" and can tickle and itch as it flows down the woman's crack and thighs. The best solution is to keep a stack of finger towels by the bed. It takes only a quick wipe to get in cuddling mode. One can be left in the "crack" as the drainage can continue for hours. This is one reason I do not like morning sex. I drain into my knickers all morning and need to change them. I hate to use panti-liners.
When it comes time to keep the sperm inside her for pregnancy, she should be on her back with legs raised; you withdraw slowly and carefully and she remain with her knees raised for twenty minute or so. This assures that her cervix is bathed in sperm giving them access to her uterus and then fallopian tubes.
So doing this straight after sex increases the likely hood of pregnancy? i only ask as im curious... quick question, not really relevent!!! my previous partner i was with for just under 4 years!!!!!!! we only used condoms the first few times, but only had sex on average once a month!!! and never got pregnant, could their be something wrong with me? or are some rumors true that some people just are not compatible? (he has a child now, so he must be ok!!!) ive been with my current partner for just under 6 months, we have sex about once a week,sometimes more,
now aiming on everyday, we only used condoms for the first month, we are not trying to get pregnant, but we are not, not trying either....we have talked about it, and would like to have children while we are young ( we are both 24)
On average once a month is more risk than most single women should take but is not frequent enough to assure pregnancy. Every day is another proposition. If 100 women have regular and frequent unprotected sex for a year, eighty-five will become pregnant.
So im just that 15 percent!! :)
If you have regular periods you may not be in that 15 percent, you may just be having sex when your egg is not available.
WHY aren't you using condoms and BCPs?
My periods are regular, and i have sex throughout the month!!
Hi, congratulations Alban for your marriege, here's an advice: why won't you come on her stomach? (Or back or leg or wherever...) at least sometimes. You don't have to do it inside. I like it and I love it when they watch it happens... ;)
Now, kayza27, maybe your previous partner's little swimmers don't really swim that well and you're fine?
:)
mybe but hes got a kid now!!
That could have been just 'luck' - this is nature, not clockwork.
You still haven't answered my question.
WHY aren't you taking proper safe sex precautions?