when my gf was ontop of me once, we were really going for it and were having some of the best sex ever, for some unknown reason I start spanking her but- I don't know who it turned on more, me or her. We both seemed to enjoy it.

hehe spanking is gud axuli...but not hard spanking. me and my bf ran round the house once trying to spank each other's bums...it was very fun!

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I'd definately say that spanking can be very enjoyable.

I guess that I, personally, like it because it causes pain. When pain is mixed with pleasure, it doesn't really hurt as bad. In fact, it acually feels good. Why a guy would like spanking a girl, though, I don't really know. Maybe it's because he knows that it makes you happy?

Yeah, I wonder why we like it? But I can't say that I care, since we get enjoyment out of it.

I have a nice full bottom and my boyfriend always gives it a playful, yet firm, swat whenever he sees the opportunity. lol. I think during sex, though, the bit of spanking ads a bit of tabu to it and the tiny bit of pain makes it a bit more intense? I'm not sure. lol

TMI?! Hatians sure are different!

Anyway, I've always enjoyed a playfull spank as a means of flirting... but we've never incoporated it into foreplay. On occasion if he's really enjoying himself he'll give me a few swats durring sex (usually if I'm on top or he's behind me) which are always plesant. I'm w/ Wally... if you enjoyed who cares why!

My husband, formerly my fiance, enjoys administering a brisk spanking, combined with anal diddling after each lovemaking session. On his island, Haiti, it is tradition to fornicate and spank, in order to cause the female love canal to spasm strongly, sucking the sperm very far in.
  Guadimo has 8 inches of black erection and we have blessed sexual intercourse twice a day, combined with intermittent fellatio and cunnilingus.

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  Any questions?

Does it matter? If you were "really getting into it," why not just enjoy?

I'm sure there will be many hypothesis offered... and the reasons are probably as many as there guys that enjoy it.

Can't say that I find it something at all appealing... but like most sexual activities, if it turned on my partner that would be a reason! I'd enjoy the result if not the act.