I am an adult straight male and I have a very close gay friend, Tom, who threw a birthday pool party for me. There were about 20-25 people present, mostly males and a few females of which about 90% are gay and most all of whom I know. Late in the evening my friend Tom said, "Hey everyone gather around. Randy likes spanking and we need to give him his birthday spankings." I was grabbed my swimming trunks were pulled off and I went over Tom's knee. When he stood me up and passed me to to the next guy in line I had a very visible erection. The visible evidence became even more apparent as I got passed around. This of course triggered lots of laughter and comments about how I was "getting off" on being spanked by guys. At that time I had never been spanked by a guy before let alone maybe 10 of them. I can't debate that I was sexually aroused as Hell. Frankly this surprised me. I had several offers to help me deal with my erection which certainly did not help any to make it go away. I still question why I got an erection and kept one during the process but since that time I have enjoyed a number of sexual spanking experiences that included one in which a guy did me while several females watched. So I'm hooked!
Sat, 08/14/2010 - 19:56
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SPANKED BY GAY GUYS... Why The Erection??
Whether you expected to or not your conscious or subconscious mind found the spanking exciting. It doesn't mean you are gay and it doesn't mean you are not gay. It might be related to a bisexual tendency, but it might not.
Mainly it means being spanked by anyone turns you on.The buttocks are an erogenous zone and being touched softly or being spanked on the buttocks with your pants down is a normal cause of penile or clitoral erection and vaginal lubrication, flushed face- og and erect nipples too; even if the touching or spanking is done by people f the same sex.
Congrats. Happy Belated Birthday!
Damn, I wish we had a spanking birthday tradition where I'm from...;)
Was there some alcohol involved in this?
Having a boner doesn't mean you're gay.
Actually I got spanked by a bunch of women at my last birthday. It was all in good fun and I didn't mind because I knew that I would get to spank all of them!:D And yes an erection reared it's head.
> I still question why I got an erection and kept one during the process?
This is a partial quote from a reply posted a few days ago:
"Spontaneous Erections are bothersome, particularly for young teens because they are annoying, and, possibly visible thru trousers and bathing suits. They can be triggered by erotic thoughts, smells, touch, walking close to someone known or unknown, by visual stimuli such as seeing a mannequin, beautiful girl/woman, advertisement, etc."
...and by spanking!
> > The buttocks are an erogenous zone and being touched softly or being spanked on the buttocks with your pants down is a normal cause of penile or clitoral erection
[QUOTE=dlb;258139]Actually I got spanked by a bunch of women at my last birthday. It was all in good fun and I didn't mind because I knew that I would get to spank all of them!:D And yes an erection reared it's head.[/QUOTE]
Thanks dlb for the great feedback. So you got spanked too! One of the lesbians spanked me as well as the guys. Of course she and her friends were laughing and saying, "I bet you guys can think of something else to do with the little bright red bare butt." To which there was considerable agreement. I have been spanked by several women before and found it to be a turn on but I was just surprised about my reaction. I am very comfortable with Tom and his friends they are a great bunch. it was all in fun but I do have to say it was a bit disconcerting to be standing there naked in front of 20-25 people with a very red butt and a very hard dripping dick. Obviously there was some groping and everyone took their time. I got a fair number of offers to help me take care of "my problem" and although I was aroused enough to seriously consider it I did pass. Part of me wishes I hadn't. And yes there was alcohol involved.
Randy :o
As an aside, I recall two "crime an punishment" events growing up. The first event was the last time I was spanked as a reprimand; second, was the last time my mother shook me. The spanking was when I was twelve--thirteen, I was mad about something just before dinner and accidentally flung my arms around, caught my dinner plate on the edge of the counter and flung it across the kitchen unintentionally! I was marched down the hall to my bedroom whereupon my mother sat on my bed and put me across her legs. As the corporal punishment began I responded with a tiny although firm erection that pressed against her leg. Of course there was no hint of recognition but ya gotta know she knew. This was more of an embarrassment to me because before this I do not remember having any erections even though they must have been commonplace. Was it a turn on? Not at that age. It wasn't long after this that curiosity got me to exploring, etc., et cetera, etc.
The last time I was shaken was when I was a couple of years older. Mother grabbed me and began to shake me in order to "shake some sense into me". The trouble from my vantage point was that I believed I was in the right about whatever the offense was so I summoned up all my might and began to shake her back. That ended that form of punishment much to her surprise.
P.S. Guess who had to clean up the food all over the kitchen and who got no dinner that night?
Hey Doc.
I too got my last disciplinary spanking when I was13. I was spending the summer with my aunt and two female cousins ages 12 and 14 because my uncle was in Germany in the military. Of course at that age being the "man of the house" I thought I was a big deal. One day I got home 6 hours late. My aunt and cousins were frantic and had been calling hospitals and the police. When I arrived home my aunt hugged me and said Thank God you are safe. Then she said "Stay right there". A minute later she returned hairbrush in hand and told me to get my shorts off. I protested and she said since they were worried and frightened too they would watch. I still resisted and she said then you will spend the next month in your room and no camping trip. Since I knew she was a lady of her word off came the shorts. I had to stand there in front of everyone and explain why I was late. My cousins were snickering and smiling obviously enjoying "Mr Big Deal's" plight. My younger cousin asked my Aunt, "Why is his thing sticking out?" Talk about embarrassing! My Aunt was very cool and simply said, "That is something that happens to boys.". Nothing else was said. My aunt being German was quite methodical and soon had me reduced to blubbering like a 5 year old. After 30 minutes in the corner displaying a very red butt I was sent to bed.
Of course thanks to my cousins every kid in the neighborhood heard the whole story by noon the next day including the girl next door who I had a crush on. But out of adversity good things do happen. She wanted to see my bruised butt and I ended up with my very first hand job! :D
Randy
Hey Randy, it sounds like you mite be open to having some fun with a guy or group of guys. This does not mean your gay, but I do think your very open to the idea of trying gay sex and possibly being watched by woman which is kinda common.
[QUOTE=marcos;258978]Hey Randy, it sounds like you mite be open to having some fun with a guy or group of guys. This does not mean your gay, but I do think your very open to the idea of trying gay sex and possibly being watched by woman which is kinda common.[/QUOTE]
Hi Marco
You are correct. Since that time I hve experimented a bit and have enjoyed the experience ;)