Hey.
Umm, i hav a problem.
I'm a new member and i was wondering if you could solve my problem. My penis head is covered by my foreskin. When i pull back the foreskin and rub my penis head it hurts ALOT. Also, my penis seems to be alittle blue and purple. Ne1 thats can help plz:D
Thx
I don't know if you would be willing to try this but here goes.
Try regional gay hotline. It doesn't matter if you are not gay; they would have greater resources for mens' health issues.
If it is not a strictly medical issue, then they could probably recommend an outlet for advice from men with similar problem.
You can get the number for a local center from the phonebook or the internet. And it's confidential.
Keep us posted and good luck.
and its purpleness, i think it might be like that because its never really been let out of the foreskin. Its been like this since the first time my foreskin opened.
ya, your probably rite
i'm 16 but like every1 i kno does not have this problem.
I do masturbate but with the foreskin over cause it hurts jux to much. I can bearly touch it. I'm trying to use stuff like lub but i dont really kno. As you kno, i'm a virgin cause i can't have sex due to the pain. Talked to doctor but.. hes weird, can't even speak english. So how can i make it less ensative without having it hurt 2 much
thx
Hmm, ok hun... the whole hurt thing and the different color... maybe.. you need to just talk to your doc? i've never heard of.. it.. but the hurting, could be from being over sensitive.. but.. the color, im alittle concerned about.. i wonder if you could look that up on the net? and see a doctors opinon? or something... i duno
Jamie
It would help if you told us how old u are, but my initial thoughts are like others, since u haven't pulled back the foreskin much before its probably just your penis getting used to the touch and use...it will, over time, adjust. You should be a bit gentle with any heavy rubbing on your exposed penis. Many guys who have a full foreskin do not pull back their foreskin when they masturebate because of the oversensativity (that often causes a quick orgasm)....so, you should try to expose the head to touch so u can get used to it. Remember, most of your lovers will probably pull down your foreskin during oral or penatrative sex...so, take it slow, but yes, you should pull it back and get used to the feeling.
As far as the color of your penis, is teh color only when you are erect? Are you using any form of cockring or anthing? If not, i'd not worry.
If there are no other complications, such as constriction by the foreskin, you may indeed be a little overly sensitive.
They do make desensitizing creams, lotions, gels, and sprays to help prolong erection. Check out sexinfotoys under lubes and lotions. Maybe one of these might help.
Its probably just sensitive, especially if you haven't masturbated much or anything.
ne1 else have this problem, it would really help
Hmmm, using lube might help, really. A lot of times if you don't use it, it will hurt, thats why we constantly say "Use lube, use plenty of lube" Try that, it might solve the problem, if not...we'll have to think of something else