hey all, first post here. me and my girlfriend were both virgins (16 and 17)until the other day, so i figure most of the problem here is simply lack of experience.
however, she's 5'2" and i'm 5'8". we had quite a bit of trouble.. erm.. "getting it in," if you will, and once we did, it popped out quite a bit - mostly during one specific position.
after a little bit of messing up, awkward communication, becoming slightly flaccid and then erect again, we finally got it to work. im wondering, though, if a height difference can cause problems in trying to do certain positions? anyone have any suggestions? thanks in advance!
I suppose it's concievable that a difference in height could cause some positions to be difficult, but I don't think your difference is severe enough. I would say that you accurately diagnose the problem. A lack of experience is everything here. Once you both figure out where all the damned legs need to go so that everything goes smoothly, you'll be set. I assume legs were the primary obstruction here. Just get the gams out of the way.
haha yeah, come to think of it.. the legs were most of the problem. however, we tried "doggy style" for a second, and that didnt work out at all. i should probably try something easier until i get more comfortable to try that one ;)
dudesweet, me and my SO differ by almost a foot, me being 6'0" and she is 5'1", this provides some difficulty in certain positions but none that a little improvisation and imagination cannot rectify. Doing doggy is very easy once the correct position has been found. experiment in different places approaching her from behind, kneeling, on one knee, standing, her on bed and you standing etc. Use pillows to change her height/angle too.
It is said that when lying down we are all the same height anyway. (Things can be positioned with ease!)
As Batman said, get control of the legs or get them out of the way.....enjoy expeimenting.
[QUOTE=learning]It is said that when lying down we are all the same height anyway. (Things can be positioned with ease!)[/QUOTE]
Untrue. I could hide behind my dad if we were both laying down. Thus far, I have been able to avoid the beer-belly that is my genetic legacy. "Beer-belly" is kind of a misnomer here, my dad doesn't drink. We'll call it a "diet pepsi belly".
Every two bodies have unique geometry. Some stuff works; some does not. Your comparative heights means nothing; practice will get you there. I do hope that you pay as much attention to protection as to simply "getting it in."
[QUOTE=Brandye]Every two bodies have unique geometry. Some stuff works; some does not. Your comparative heights means nothing; practice will get you there. I do hope that you pay as much attention to protection as to simply "getting it in."[/QUOTE]
haha yeah don't worry, we used a condom. she said tons of her friends have unprotected sex, and we both think thats crazy.
and thanks for all the advice, guys!
My B/f is 5 feet, i'm about 5'10....i find it a lot more awkwrd with the guy being shorter. Obviously, no stand-up (at least, comfortably)....and doggy style is hard cuz his lack of height is in his legs.
rather than have him kneel, why not stand up behind you?? :p
im 6 foot 2 and my ideal size for a woman is 5 foot 5
Heh, I'm 6'2" and my gf is 5'0"... there are some things that are a little more difficult but you just work around it, figure something out. We wanted to try standing, so she just had to stand on something, or use pillows when you're laying down.
Its just practice and a little imagination, and you'll get there. My bfs 6'4 and i'm 5'5, and we have no problems. I sometimes where high heels for some positions, to help a little.
Main thing is to enjoy it! :)
I'm 5 8 and my guy is 6 2 and I find it funny because my guy loves to bury his head in my chest so sometimes the height difference just makes everything better.
I'm 5' 7", and my guy is 6' 4"...I wouldn't trade our height difference for anything in the world!