Hey All!
I'm new here and was wondering if anyone has any suggestions/input for me...
My bf and I have been together for 1 1/2 years. Most of the time, we have FANTASTIC sex (oral as well), but sometimes he can't finish. I feel like it's something I'm doing (or NOT doing), but I don't think I'm doing anything differently from when we have that really great sex. Has anyone else ever experienced this? I would really appreciate any advice you have to offer. Thanks!
Sun, 03/13/2005 - 19:45
#1
Sometimes, I just can't make him cum...
this sounds like a problem i have. a lot of the time i simply can't orgasm from sex or oral. in fact, i've never been able to cum from oral or manual stimulation from someone else. There's really nothing that you as the girl can really do differently except just not worry about it so much. my girlfriend was so crazy about trying to make me cum that i expect that played into why i ended up having problems again toward the end of the sexual part of our relationship. just know that he's having fun doing what he's doing, and that it feels good even if he doesn't orgasm. If he hasn't made a fuss about anything don't make too big a deal about it.
talk 2 him. thats the best way to figure out if u really are doing something wrong....he is the one who knows his body the best and maybe if u talk to him about it u will get some good tips and stuff!!
-mariah
As long as its just occasionaly , don't worry and don't make a fuss over it. Nothing can make matters worse than feeling that you are being monitored!!
My boyfriend is the same way. Sometimes he just doesn't cum. At first I was worried about it but he assured me that the sex was still amazing he was happy as long as I got off. So as long as the sex is still good for both of you, don't worry so much and just have fun!