My girlfriend and I are going away this weekend. I'd like to either bring along something special, or do something special while there. It doesn't have to be big or anything - we're already staying at a nice B&B and will have at least one nice dinner while there.
Just wondering if you have some ideas to toss out...
what do you mean special? like a special kinda romantic date or like some cool idea to get her in the mood?
Anything... I just want to have or do something that will be unexpected.
Here's an example... our last weekend trip, she brought and wore lingerie (she had never done that before with me).
What I'm looking for doesn't necessarily have to be sexual in nature, btw, the lingerie was just an example.
Women like pic-nics. That is to say extremely informal dining. Outdoors or in a hot steamy bathtub - your choice.
We have stayed in Bread and Breakfast establishments a couple of times. My concern is noise. In the places we've sampled, you just cannot be too animated because these are essentially homes and sound travels.
Because B&Bs are often private homes, bathrooms are frequently "down the hall" and not private. Be sure to take along bathrobes and slippers. If you happen to be going to one with a private bathroom, so much the better.
Draw a warm bath, warm the room if possible, and have a long luxurious soak. Sit together in tandem, you behind her, drizzle water over her shoulders frequently in order to keep her upper body warm, and just talk and lightly make out for half an hour or so. Done, stand up and shower each other using liquid body wash {soap) and your hands--no washcloth. Dry each other off in turn, gently patting each other dry. DO NOT rub a towel against each other unless you intend to make it a substitute for a massage here or there.
If you enjoy massages, take along a large vibrator like a Hitachi Wand or Wahl Coil plus an extension cord (just in case). Begin with an general overall massage, transitioning to an erotic massage. If you use something like the Wand, cup the ball-shaped vibrating head with your hand, extend a finger or two and use it to diffuse the vibrations when getting up close and personal. The Coil comes with interchangeable heads. If you have another type--improvise.
When she is not looking, place a small short love note on her pillow.
Picnics are great. I frequently recommend them. All you need is a trail or a field and a grove of trees. Take along a couple of pillows, a blanket, some food, and a craving for food and.... Just make sure you set up "camp" off the path!