I know these sound like stupid questions, but I have a few.
First off, how do you put on a male condom? I've never done it before and I don't feel confrontable asking anyone I know.
How would my girlfriend put on a female condom?
Which is more effective, male or female?
and final question,
Where do most people start their fun? My girlfriend and I were talking about a shower and going from there since I've read some articles on here that you must be clean so I figure that's the best place to start.
Well that I know of most condoms have a picture on the box on how to put one on. When I put the condom on my boyfriend I place it on the tip and roll it down.
As for a female condom I have never had experience with one. Honestly I never even seen one but am guessing they have instructions on the box. There is also some info on this website on female condoms I think they mention how to put one on.
ok well what about where do most couples start?
Well I guess that depends on each individual.
The shower that’s not a bad place to start.
The Program tells you where to start, where to go next and then what to do then. Showers are for AFTERWARDS.
Get a condom and PRACTICE!!!!
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Well, we tried somethings a couple weeks ago at her mom's but it didn't work out so good, we didn't have time to do anything, just a little foreplay and some sleeping next to each other, and some B.J's and stuff, but not actually doing "it". We do have time, it's just we aren't really in the mood or have any motivation in our systems to try to do it again. We talk about it on the phone, but don't do it. Any suggestions out there helping us getting back into the "mood"? Any feedback will be helpful. Thanks guys (and gals)!!
> Any suggestions out there helping us getting back into the "mood"?
1. Relax
1a. No rushing or pushing to do it
2. Do not make intercourse your goal
2a. Make making out and fooling around your goal
2b. Devote no less than half an hour to forty five minutes to-
* Necking
* Petting
* Heavy Petting
before ever getting to--
* Foreplay
before ever getting to the next stage if this is in the cards
3. Devote your time to connecting with each other- mind to mind
* Let her know she matters and that you care for her
3a. Make love to her mind, let the physical activities be the outward
expression of what you feel for her
4. Just let the physical activities of touching and caressing and kissing progress naturally as you commune mentally using words and looks.
4a. When the time is right, you will either be happy ending with forplay or moving on to intercourse.
* Intercourse is nice although orgasms from foreplay tend to be stronger. Intercourse is not the be all end all to making love; although, if this is your first time or even the first time with this particular partner, I fully understand the drive and desire to both connect and experiencing intercourse in all of its glory.
Final word: Go with the flow..... Whatever happens happens.
Told you - do The Program.
Planning a game plan for sex will take away the excitement of it. Sometimes you just have to take it how it comes and go with it. But making a plan makes it too formal if you ask me.
yeah, yeah, yeah - spontaneous is great...except, somehow - it never seems to happen.
not in the mood
not the right time
yadda yadda yadda
and she's not too terribly excited anyway
just stop - realise that until she's fired up and as excited about sex as you are - she's not doing spontaneous
Do The Program
Yes but you can't plan out getting her in the mood you just have to take action and do it.
Sure you can, brick!
If you follow the steps as outlined - she'll be "in the mood" alright!
You'll be lucky to make it out alive actually! LOL
I find that the ones who complain - haven't tried it. Those who have tried it - find it works even better than I said it would.