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Some Kinky Sex Ideas!

Wondering If Anyone had any ideas or experiences on some kinky things to try

I like doing some little kinky things with my boyfriend. I enjoy my hands being handcuffed behind my back or over my head. I also love him to whip me (not hard enough to bleed or anything, just a little sting). My favorite way to be whipped is to be having sex doggy style so he can whip my back and I can get myself off with my hands if need be. ;) Some people would consider that way too weird to try, and others would consider that not kinky at all, so I'm not exactly sure what you're looking for, but that's something me and my bf really have fun with.

Being blindfolded can also be a really interesting experience, because since there's no visual you have to focus on sensation. There are lots of things you can try with that - for example, having the dominant partner really tease the sub with different types of sensation. So, for example, if you were blindfolded, your wife could tease you by stroking and kissing you all over, and telling you not to move at all so that she can have her fun with you. Then she might have a cup of ice cubes and cup of hot tea, and box of altoids. She might take an ice cube into her mouth and then slowly lick and suck your balls with a cold mouth. Then she might suck on an altoid and take your shaft into her mouth (if you've never tried it, it's quite an interesting sensation from what I hear). Then she might take a sip of hot tea and go back to it, and when you rock hard and just dying to be relieved, she can finish you off. You can also do this sort of thing with your wife as the sub.

Good luck!

Kinky? Okay - just how kinky do you want to get here, hun?

Are we talking being a little strong with her or are we talking needles through his nipples here?

Anything really nothing painful just kinky stuff like using whip cream or something just kinky stuff

Okay then - opening the mild file - blindfold him and yet have him be active rather than a passive participant, tie him down onto the bed and do with him what you will (you'd be surprised how inventive she'll become), go shopping together for leather male restraints making sure they are in proportion to his size even if this means shopping at PetsMart in the Rottie section (try to not giggle while doing this), shop for sex toys in the store then try them out in the parking lot, honey and liquid chocolate sauce (need I say more) small amounts as it gets messy, play with liquid latex (also messy), using vibrating anal probe on him while also doing fellatio - the list goes on and on. But that's enough for now.

those ideas sound wonderful evil ! i like the idea of trying the stuff out in the parking lot and the anal probe with felatio hel yeah but here's the thing my wife used to go down on me alot and then one night she did it for longer than 5 minutes and she stoppped and ever since then she won't do it anymore and i asked her why and she said she isn't any good at it i was like honey you are awesome it feels great she was like no cuz you didn't cum i was like it takes longer than 5 minutes honey but she still feels that way and will not try it anymore what do i do about that ? also she has always just out of the blue say things like how would you like for me to do you in the ass or i want to stick this up your ass do you think she is really wanting to ass **** me or what ?

Wow you two don't know eachother very well do you? You two also do not communicate very well either. It is time for you both to sit down and SERIOUSLY discuss these issues, misconceptions, and fantasies you both are having but seem to damn shy to actually do. TALK WITH HER.

[QUOTE=cp3515;160805]Anything really nothing painful just kinky stuff like using whip cream or something just kinky stuff[/QUOTE]

lol thats not kinky!

I like whipped cream........on strawberries. Now that's kinky :-)

We always have a group sex DVD playing. We don't necessarily watch it the whole time,but we enjoy the sounds of sex in the background. We begin with mutual masturbation while watching. Sometimes we watch while having intercourse in the spoon position. We also like doggy while watching, but we both cum real fast in this position. We have a nice toy collection. One of our favorites is our Penthouse Vibrating Golden Egg that my DW inserts in her vagina and then I insert my penis and we have intercourse with it vibrating inside. Really hot!! Another favorite is our Trojan Vibrating Ring. DW says there is nothing like a real penis that vibrates. We also have a rabbit type vibrator(Purple Titan). I love to watch my DW masturbate with this and to watch her cum. We have 3 vibrating dildos 2 jelly and one black rubber. I love to watch these go in and out of her vagina. She will give me a blowjob as she is using a dildo and we fantasize that we are having a threesome. DW uses and an anal toy(Spectragels Vibrating Anal Tool, Anal T, Anal E-Z Bend or Anal Beads) to massage my prostate while she gives me a blowjob. Really intensifies my orgasms. One thing we enjoy is for her to masturbate and just before she cums, I will go down on her and after she cums, we kiss deeply sharing her juices as I put my penis in her and we cum together. We rarely do anal because we prefer other forms of sex. DW is still so tight.
Rarely do we make it through a complete scene on the DVD without cumming.

Let her gently nibble the side of your penis, my bf loves it

What's the difference between kinky and perverted?

Kinky is using a feather.

Perverted is using the whhole bird.

So I love the ideas that some people have given! I myself am male. I am 20 and currently own 2 dildos, 3 butt plugs, and a few other fun toys. The prostate massage and so on are great ideas, especaily while getting head! If your lady likes anal, have her use a dildo in her vagina while you prod her in the rear :) (excuse the lingo). Cum play is fun. Light bondage to start out with is cool, and should yaall like that, you might learn a little Jap rope bondage (the lighter stuff).

I agree with what EvilEvilKitten said about the communication thing, talk the stuff out. Figure out what kinky things you each like and start havin fun! Theres a world of kinkyness out there for you to try, some will be for you, others not so much.

So i got bored and decided to classify what is kinky on a scale relative to me, if your at all interested.... heres what I wrote.

Everybody at some point of time is asked "how kinky are you?" I know I have been asked it many times, and have asked it many times as well. Although, it is damn hard to really say "im this [ ] kinky" because its all relative. Eventhough kinkyness is relative to a person, Rod and I were hungry and bored and decided to make a rough scale of kinkyness relative to ME. Keep in mind, its all relative, but I will try to make it applicable to as many people as possible using a few basic guidelines. Im sure Im going to miss a few things, or leave some out, but it happens... The guidelines for kinkyness are as follows:

1. Unconventional-

How differnt is it from what what is coined "normal"? I would assume missionary position would be normal sence aobut 90% of people report to using it the most, so everything is based off of it.

2. Shunability-

Relative to society, how much is it shuned. Yes some things are shuned as much as others, but thats what the other catoigory is for...

My rought scale of kinkyness relative to me:

1. Regular Sex:
Missionary, doggy style, and other common positions included. It makes me giggle when I hear to 16 year olds talk about how kinky they were when they tried it from behind... Thats some sad ****... Kids these days..

2. Irregular Foreplay:
69ing and other forms of oral are sometimes harder to bring up that just ****ing. 69ing for example is shuned because of the "lack of romance" sence you faces are dug deep into eachother like an ostrich hiding from a lion. Many people will exclude things like 69ing for this reason alone... (agian, thats some sad ****).

3. Funky Sex::
Obviously, its a little wierd to talk to your bone buddy about wanting to have her get in a handstand position with her legs on the wall while you plung in from above like a kamakazi! Wierd positions, strictly vaginal intercorse also is looked down upon by society's standards due to the lack of "romatic gratifacation" durring the so called "love making". **** you society, Ill be romatic and loving after I cum...

4. Light bondage:
This kind of bondage is little fluffy handcuffs, belts, or hankerchiefs used to tie the hands down, or to just restrict them. This **** can be broken out of easily, and is just there for thought and a little roleplay... It does serve its purpose, dont get me wrong, but im just clarifying why i call it LIGHT bondage... Obviously this is i little wierd for most people, and a bit hard to bring up to a bone buddy (depending on personality), so it is moderately low in my scale.

5. Light Roleplaying:
At some point comes the time where people are comefterable enough to roleplay a spacific charecter, or role. Its a little tough to get into because of the wierdness of it all, and society doesnt really like anyone to be ****ing the **** out of a little slutty cheerleader instead of his girlfriend (even though they are one in the two)... but too ****ing bad.

6. Female Anal:
Heres where we start getting a little kinky. Trust me, its damn tough to ask a girl to let you bone her in the butt, much less talk about anal sex in general. Ya ya, i know, some dont like it, but some do. Some girls can have an orgasam from anal alone, some absolutely hate the feeling, whatever the case, you cant knock it till you try it. Do it right though, or it WILL suck.

7. Harder-Core Bondage:
This **** is not what you use if you want Little Miss Rotten Crotch to get out, nor would you use it if she doesnt enjoy it. Id say this stuff is pretty high on the list due to wierdness, shunability, and its a gateway kinkyness. I mean, using japanese rope bondage on someone can lead to some wierd and freaky **** :).

8. 3-some, and More-somes!!!
How many girlfriends, or boyfriends for that matter, are going to want you to have sex with another girl, or boy? Ya its wierd to talk about unless yaal just dont give a ****, or you two are very secure and are lookin for some sexual enlightenment. Its tough to start to bring it up, and its even harder to ask the 3rd wheel to join in... But thats no reason why it shouldnt be done .

9. The Ability To Be Random:
This is a pretty broad catigory. It includes sex in public places with the chance of getting caught (partys dont count, everone there doesnt give a **** anyways, they would prob ask to join in or watch...) and also includes toys, veggies, vases, lavalamps, making fist a verb, beer bottles and whatever else you can find :). Some people can easily jump to this stage because well, they just cant find a dildo, but when your boyfriend randomly decides to stash his cucumber somewhere other than the fridge, it gets a little kinky... Got an empty beer bottle?? Forget the trash!!(careful with that one though, i dont suggest it due to breakability... if its not pyrex, dont use it).

10. The Taboo of Taboo:
This one is the kinkeyest of all, and can be the boadest of all. It includes many things like sadomasochism (the sexual pleasure from pain), sex clubs, male anal, and other things in the ballpark. These things are hard as **** to bring up in a conversation, to confess that you do (unless your outright proud of it), and really looked down upon in society, hence called taboo... They are usualy rare and hard to develop a like for.

Obviously, this is purly sexual and does not include my opinons on morality dealing with sex vs. relationships, or anything like that really.

There are many things in here that should be slowly brought up, carefuly planned, and though about, and percisely executed due to the ability to emotionly or phisicaly harm the other person, which should never be the goal (unless they get off on it.... ****ing freaks (just jokeing)).

Although many of these things are wierd, I suggest that people try something at every level (and there are more things i didnt include which fall into each level, use your immagination). Sex is fun.... till youve done the same thing for a few months. Diversity in sex is amazing, if a person is truly comfterbal with their partner, they can try any aspect of sex (unless he or she is jsut a tightwadd, but if thats the case they at least a 6 seeing as they have something pretty big up their ass...). Have fun kids!! Be safe :)

Please excuse the screwups.

how bout some nipple clips....just make sure u tape the chip bags closed while ur using the clips. lol

That sounds painful....what constitutes kinky??

Kinky seems to mean different things to different people. I think the standard definition of kinky is an adjective that describes exotic sexual practices; exotic meaning something outside of the "usual."

In my personal interpretation something can be kinky from a societal point of view or a personal point of view. From western society's point of view having sex 3 times a day might be considered kinky because most people don't and while most might want to it is true that most are afraid to try pull it off. The fact that you are on this board makes you kinky in the eyes of our society. From my personal point of view a kink, or a kinky practice, is anything that I have never heard of, have never tried(but the idea turns me on) or at least something that turns em on a lot, but I don't get to do often.

What one person considers kinky another may find romantic and vice versa.

Here are some ideas for Basic kink:

Learn as many POSITIONS and TECHNIQUES as you can. Get one of the many fine sex manuals that are availabel and go through the entire manual with your partner.
FOOD-cover your partner with any edible spread from whipped cream, to jelly, to peanut butter to spaghetti sauce, whatever you are into and lick it all off. You can do this to each other, Insert fruits or vegetables into her vagina and eat them out. Insert cherries or grapes in her vagina and have her try to fire them into your mouth. BEWARE, some sugary fruits can alter the pH of the vagina and help contribute to infections, but if the skin is on the fruit there is little danger and it makes her exercise the PC muscle.

One partner uses the other as a table. Serve a meal on your partner, or you can be the table also, and enjoy. Things that are eaten with chopsticks are fun. If the table is on her/his back the diner can hand feed the table. Remember the chopsticks? Use them on the tables genitals and nipples.

Cover each other in massage OIL and have a go at it. Wrap each other in PLASTIC WRAP, cover the plastic wrap in oil and have a go at it, haha. Be sure to leave access to the goodies.

Mild BONDAGE and DISCIPLINE. (light bondage as someone else called it)
Bondage is about one of the partners restraining the other's movement (or senses) by rope, metal cuffs or bands, leather cuffs or straps etc. and certain types of roleplaying. The most popular bondage game is probably SEX SLAVE in which one person is the master or mistress and the the is the play toy. Yes, bondage actually has two roots: one from the same root as BIND and the other from an Old Norse word which means slave. I don't usually do the binding part when I play sex slave, just an ornamental gold chain at the waist and or ankle.
The discipline part comes in when the salve has been "bad" and needs to be taught a lesson. Discipline can consist of performing or learning to perform a sexual task, being sent to do chores, or corporal punishment such as spanking, whipping, caning, etc. It is at this point that B&D and S&M blur in my opinion.
Other popular bondage games are captor/captive- military, cowboy and indian,pirate and damsel, anything involving bad guy/gal and victim
and some popular discipline games are: student-teacher,boss-employee, man or lady of the house and servant to name the most popular

Another kink which is becoming so common that I feel that it is falling outside the societal concept of kink is the use of INSERTABLE TOYS and VIBRATORS. Look for these at your neighborhood sex shop.

SWINGING-requires a very high level of self confidence for both partners and a high level of trust between the partners.

Just GETTING OUT OF THE BEDROOM and into the rest of the house, or yard, or pool, or in the great outdoors-ah one of MY faves humping away on the slopes of the Blueridge Mountains in N.C. or on the edge of one of the volcanoes here in Mex.

I am going to give you some educational links to get you started.
If you think you might like rope bondage the largest Japanese style rope bondage event on the planet will be in Chicago May 23-26. I'll leave a link for that too.
http://www.sexuality.org/index.html
http://health.discovery.com/centers/sex/tantric/tantricsex.html
http://www.ecstagony.com/eng/spanking.htm
http://www.japanrope.com/tutorial.html
http://www.shibaricon.com/

Now I feel all kinked up! Going to have to do something about that.

Thanks for the insight...

You want kinky...okay....

well you need a kilt an inflatable sheep and a box of rubber bands....

First you inflate the sheep and then....

well you know what to do from there....

hahahaha:p

dlb covers it all. I didn't see "soft swing" in the list. I have watched my wife get fondle and brought to an orgasm by another male and then we had sex while he watched us. it was great for the three of us.

so I'm looking for some mild "torture" ideas to perform with my girlfriend. I am going to bound and blindfold her to a chair and perform various things to make her answer questions. So think interrogation. Anyhow, there will be candle wax, popcicles or ice, mild shocking, perhaps some needles and razors. I need ideas to fill about 3 hours of time. See you all soon and thanks for your help!

[QUOTE=jjizzle;236353]so I'm looking for some mild "torture" ideas to perform with my girlfriend. I am going to bound and blindfold her to a chair and perform various things to make her answer questions. So think interrogation. Anyhow, there will be candle wax, popcicles or ice, mild shocking, perhaps some needles and razors. I need ideas to fill about 3 hours of time. See you all soon and thanks for your help![/QUOTE]

:eek: Make sure you have a SAFE WORD is all I can say......:eek:

[QUOTE=jjizzle;236353]so I'm looking for some mild "torture" ideas to perform with my girlfriend. I am going to bound and blindfold her to a chair and perform various things to make her answer questions. So think interrogation. Anyhow, there will be candle wax, popcicles or ice, mild shocking, perhaps some needles and razors. I need ideas to fill about 3 hours of time. See you all soon and thanks for your help![/QUOTE]

OK let's be realistic. How much experience do you have in BDSM roleplay? You say you are looking for mild torture and go on to say you are thinking of shocking, needles and razors. This tells me that you have very little if any experience with this.

It is a good idea to not try too much all at once, especially when it is new to you. Wax can be considered advanced mild, but it also falls in the moderate to advanced category. Electro-play is not something you should try without educating yourself on it. This is by no means mild or for beginners. Needles and razors!????? Advanced. This is the sort of thing that you discuss very seriously before you try it on a person. It looks to me as if you are setting yourself and your girlfriend up for an unsuccessful scene.

You want to tie her? For beginners the thrill of doing something considered kinky is often enough. You don't have to tie her tightly, in fact you tie her loosely enough so that if she feels uncomfortable or panics she can get herself out. If you feel that youmust tie her tightly then you need to have safety scissors or EMT shears at hand at all times.
At hand at all times means on your person; either in your back pocket or strapped to you if you are otherwise naked. Bondage at all levels is one of the most potentially dangerous forms of BDSM play. Go to this site for some tying tutorials. I recommend learning to do numbers 1, 7, 5 and 4 - in that order before - you attempt your kinky sex scene.
http://www.twistedmonk.com/video.htm
Get some 1/4" polypropylene rope from your local super store or hardware. It is soft, workable and relatively inexpensive. Later you can invest in specialty bondage rope. You will use the tie in #7 to tie her to the chair-the rope going around her chest, below the breasts but as high up and close to them as possible and around the chair back as if she and the chair were in fact "one column." You will need to tell her to expand her chest as you tie so she will be able to breath after you get her tied. You cannot be too rough on inexperienced bottoms, especially when you are an inexperienced top. Use the tie in #1 to tie her legs just above the ankles to the chair legs. You want to be able to slip a finger between the rope and your captives limb(s) or body in any tie. You can tie her arms at her sides or folded across her stomach. Hands tied behind the back can become unbearably uncomfortable very quickly and you do want this to last a while don't you? Also you should know that ten minutes is about the limit for having hands over head, for most people. Practice tying yourself ( highly recommended ) or inanimate objects before you try it on her. You want to be somewhat competent at tying.

My suggestion is that you should forget about shocking, needles and razors for now. All this is really too much in one scene even for very experienced people. If you want to go ahead with wax play please read the following link
http://www.kufs.org/waxplayinfo.htm
Since you mention a blindfold you might try this. Rather than use a real blade, needle, or even wax on her lift the blindfold and show her the real thing. Cover her eyes again and instead of a sharp blade run a butter knife that has been in the freezer over her skin. Rather than a real needle carefully prick her with a toothpick-being sure that you don't actually break her skin. Show her a lit candle dripping wax, but cover her eyes and threaten her with it-eventually letting melted water from an ice cube fall on her.

You are talking about this lasting three hours. I think that is a little long. You should not put minimum or maximum durations on an intimate scene. It lasts as long as you are both enjoying it. It might be good for her for fifteen to thirty minutes, maybe more. Take your time experimenting. If you find something that is working-especially for her- try to get the most out of it. If she has a good time you are going to have a good time;) and it is more likely that she will want to repeat this sort of activity.

Be sure to discuss with her the things that you might do. Don't pull anything on her that she has not previously said that she wants to try. Again, don't push yourself or her to do some of everything in one session.

She is basically game for anything. I didn't want to do anything too painful, she was the one that requested it, so I'm still a little reserved, but ask and you shall receive. Secondly, yes there is a safeword. Third, this whole this is the result of 'punishment' from a previous and ongoing scenerio. A little insight: I'm a former Marine and wants me to play off of this. She enjoys the authority and command presence. She is really into exploring sex. Thanks for the tips on the butter knife, I might use that and I like the "letting her see it" idea. Btw, she will be handcuffed and shackled (real ones). Yes this is a first for us together, but not individually. Only she wants more 'punishment' than I have yet to dish out.

I have met several ex USMC in the scene. They all seem to be sadists. One is really into what he calls military bondage which includes painful ties and interrogation scenes.

If she likes pain let her have it. But since you say this is an ongoing thing I still suggest you save some for the next time and the time after that. The more you get to know each other, the more you scene together the more you as a top are going to know how to push which buttons and when in order to get her where she needs to go and of course to get what you want out of her. If you continue playing this way you will eventually be able to take her to ever higher levels of erotic pain, possibly farther than she ever imagined. A safe word is great. For maximum enjoyment you will want to take her as close to the edge as possible without provoking the safe word.

Real cuffs and shackles huh? Do these have any sort of safety spring which would allow you to get her out of them quickly in case of an emergency? Bondage is Risk Aware Consensual Kink. There are so many unsafe elements of it-we can only do everything possible to minimize the risks. If there is a fire, earthquake, flood, tornado or worse you must be able to set her free with no time lost. No matter where you live on this planet there is something that can happen at any moment which would constitute and emergency. Never forget that.

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I think maybe you can take a look at the groups to join and look for the one that says Freak like me..there you might find some ways that willturn you on....take your 4 wheeler there if thats yours and take your partner out on a ride and do it on your ride..maybe a little kinky but highly intense due to the fact of being out under the trees and out in public..quite arousing...hmmmm just a thought

doggy style while hes holding your handcuffed hands behind your back

thats something ive wanted to try

I like my girlfriend to lie on her tummy and watch tv, while I get behind her and but a pillow under her pelvic area so as to raise her butt in the air and I will lick her asshole for the WHOLE movie, or at least till I can slide myself into her.

[QUOTE=redram;165569]What's the difference between kinky and perverted?

Kinky is using a feather.

Perverted is using the whhole bird.[/QUOTE]

Now taht's a good one, lol. Thanks.

saturday is fun day!

I love just having my balls rubed thru my shorts, It doesn't matter where we are, just having my girlfriend rubbing my balls inside my pocket! I cut the pocket out so she can hold them while we walk around town.I love it, it gets us both worked up then we go back to my truck and just go at it. thats the way to spend a saturdat morning!

Yah a giant orgy

[QUOTE=butthead;237258]I like my girlfriend to lie on her tummy and watch tv, while I get behind her and but a pillow under her pelvic area so as to raise her butt in the air and I will lick her asshole for the WHOLE movie, or at least till I can slide myself into her.[/QUOTE]

If you dont want to see movie try Ear Muff or Eve's Escatacy or Scarf. Pussy is definetly better for licking than asshole atleast for the Whole movie time.

was wondering what oral sex or cunnilingus with a black girl would be like any one had thinking of trying it may as well try every thing under the sun only live once

Kinky ideas? Oh well I have one or 2. We role-play a lot (just for a bit of fun), I "go to bed" and pretend to be asleep. When the bf comes in, blind-folds me and handcuffs me to the bed, spread-eagled. Of course then I am at his mercy to do what he wants with me. Usual trick is some of the heating gel on my body, then using ice-cubes to "cool me down", if you have a strong sensation threshold ice-cubes inside your vagina are amazing. Strange at first, but couple that with his hot tongue on my clit? OMG!!!! Then of course, there are the toys. Loves to use a vibrator with varying settings, so he can start off slow and then speed it up. Another of his favourites is to have sex, and me use a vibrator on my clit. He certainly enjoys the vibration against his penis. One of my favs is whipped cream and chocolate body paint. Can draw all over his body with the paint and then have fun licking it off SLOWLY SLOWLY SLOWLY. Messy but he loves it and so do I.

Keep a roll of duct tape in your bedroom or playspace. You'll think of things to do with it.

Role playing. My boyfriend and I animal role play on a nearly daily basis (sometimes more so than others). Ex: he will be sitting in the living room watching the tv or surfing the web and I will come trotting out of the bedroom wearing nothing but my fox tail butt plug and (sometimes) crotchless panties. He drops everything and chases me around the house panting, stalking, licking, pouncing, etc. We get quite a thrill out of it!
We both wear the butt plugs sometimes- during sex, oral, etc. The anal stimulation feels amazing and the tails make both of us feel wild and sexy at the same time.

http://fawxtails.com

More curiosity about wax

I am new to the forum. I put in the advanced search box :candle, wax.
I have been reading the posts but I have not found enough info on it.

I am wanting to know if anyone has info on soy candle wax on vagina or anus.
I understand it has the lowest melting temperature but I have not used this before.

I have read some columns about it and what I have read is that it should not be used on these parts, but that is where I want it.

If anyone has any experience to share please do!

I have used beeswax candles before on my nipples and it was hot. Hot enough for me to not use *down there*. It felt good though.

Is there some other reason like infection or allergic reaction? I don't hav allergies but I don't want a yeast infection.

Also is it going to break down a condom? We are not going to put it on the condom, but if the wax is near by and gets on the condom, will it break down like petroleum products do to condoms?

Wax, especially soy, on the anus is ok. A hotter wax I would not recommend until you have more experience and then soft paraffin. No wax in the vagina but on the mons veneris and labia majora is good for some people. It can be tough to get out of pubic hair.
Read the following as a primer for wax play
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/pleasing-her/29435-candles.html#post261210

Do not put wax on the condom.

i would be willing to try some kinky sex as long as no one gets hurt and by consenting adults by all means go for it

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try handcuffing your wrists to hers, your ankles to hers. That would be different. Havent tried it myself, but it could be fun

My friend and I love to think of different things...we have tried all the kinky stuff that has been mentioned here... but the latest things we want to try are
1. He wants to watch me pee...and he wants to pee on me. I am not 100% sure about this one but I try anything once.
2. He wants to cum on a mirror and have me lick it off.

Some of our favourite things are... him cumming on my face, having a threesum, him using a coke bottle on me... me using my small vibrator in his arse... outdoor/public sex.

I am always up for new different ideas if anyone has any :)

my fiance and I are looking to kink up our sex life. We already have a good deal of experience with the usual bondage together and we know eachothers likes and dislikes pretty well. We both are trying to find so new kinky things to do together for some increased excitement. He's a marine so he really likes to be the dom when we are in the bedroom. Any suggestions for new things to try??

My first response is to say use your imagination. If that fails -

Here's an A-Z (with a couple of numbers thrown in) of kinks and fetishes. Some are fairly tame, some are kind of wild, some are too wild for me.

1
1950s Household,
2
24/7,
A
Abduction, Abrasion Play, Accents, Age Play, Anal, Anal Beads, anal chastity, anal hooks, Anal Sex, Anal Stretching, anal training, androgyny, anime, Anonymous Encounters, armbinders, armpits, Art Erotica, artistic cutting, asian, Asphyxiaphilia, Ass Play, Ass to Mouth, Ass worship, attention, Auralism,
B
Bald Girls, Ball Gags, Ball Kicking, Ball Stretching, Ballbusting, Ballet Boots/Shoes, Bare Bottom Spanking, Bare Handed Spanking, barefoot, Bastinado, Bathroom Use Control, BBW Bondage, BBW/BHM, BDSM, begging, behavior modification, bellydancing, belt spanking, belt whippings, Ben Wa Balls, big tits, Bimboification, bisexuality, Biting, black men, BLACK WOMEN, Blindfolds, Blogging, Blood, Bloodplay, blow jobs, blushing, Body Hair, Body Modification, Body Paint, Body Worship, Bondage, bondage art, Bondage Equipment, Bondage Tape, Boot, boot blacking, Boot licking, boot worship, Boss/Secretary, Braces, Branding, Brats, Breast Bondage, Breast Spanking, breast whipping, Breast/Nipple Torture, breastfeeding, breasts, Breath Play, breeding, Bruises, Bukkake, bullwhips, Burlesque, Business Suits, butches, Butt Plugs,
C
Caging/Confinement, Candle Wax, Caning, Caressing, Casting, Castration, catheters, Catsuits, CBT, Cell Popping, Chains, Chakra energy play, chaps, Chastity, Chastity Devices, cheerleading uniforms, Chocolate, choking, Cigars, Clamps and Clips, claws, Cling Film, clit pumping, clit spanking, Clit Torture, Clothespins, Clover Clamps, Clowns, Cock and Ball Torture, Cock Milking, cock slapping, Cock Worship, cocksucking, Collar and Lead/Leash, Collars, Consensual nonconsent, control, Coprophilia/Scat, cornertime, Corporal Punishment, Corset Cinching, corset piercing, corset training, corsetry, Corsets, cosplay, Costumes/Dressing-up, Covert Bondage, crawling, creampie, crops, Cross Dressing, crucifixion, Crying, Cuckold, Cuddles, cum, Cunnilingus, cunt torture, Cunt Worship, Cupping, Cutting, cyber sex,
D
D/s, Dacryphilia, Daddy Daughter roleplay, Daddy/girl, damsels in distress, decorative cutting, Deep Throating, Defilement, Degradation, Denim, Depilation/Shaving, Diapers, Dildos, Discipline, Doctor/Nurse Play, dollification, Domestic Servitude, Domination, Double Penetration, Douching, Duct Tape,
E
E-Stim, Edge Play, Electrical Play, Electrotorture, emotional masochism, Emotional Sadism, Encasement Fetish, Enemas, Energy Play, erotic hypnosis, Erotic Literature, Erotic Photography, Exhibitionism, eye contact restrictions,
F
Face Farting, Face Fucking, Face sitting/smothering, Face Slapping, Facial Hair, Fear, Feathers, feet, Female Ejaculation, female humiliation, Female Supremacy, FemDom, feminization, Fetish Models, Fetish Wear, fetnights, Figging, fingering, fingernails, Fire Cupping, Fire Flogging, Fire Play, fish hooks, Fishnets, Fisting, Flashing, Flesh Hooks, Flirting, Flogging, Food Play, Foot Massage, Foot Worship, Foot/Feet, forniphilia, Freckles, French Maids, fucking machines, Fur,
G
Gagging/Choked by Cock, Gags, Gangbangs, Gas Masks, gay bondage, gay sex, geeks, Geisha, gender play, genital piercings, genital torture, Glass Dildos, Glasses, glory hole, gloves, Golden Showers, Gor, Gorean slave positions, Goth, graphoerotica, Grooming, group sex, Gun Play,
H
hair, hair bondage, Hair Pulling, hairbrush spanking, Handcuffs, handjobs, Hands, Hanging, head shaving, hemp rope, Hentai, High Heels, High Protocol, Hojojutsu, hoods, hook suspension, Hot Oil Massages, human ashtray, Human Doll, human furniture, human toilet, Humiliation, Humor, Hypnosis,
I
Ice Cubes, impact play, Impregnation Fantasy, Incest Play, Infantilism, Infidelity, inflatables, intelligence, Internal Enslavement, interracial sex, Interrogation,
J
Japanese Bondage,
K
Kicking, kidnapping roleplay, kilts, Kinbaku, Kissing, Kitten Petplay, Klismaphilia, kneeling, Knife Play, knives,
L
lace, Lactation, large labia, Large objects, Latex, Leather, Leaving marks, legs, Lesbian Domination, Librarians, Light Bondage, Lingerie, lipstick, liquor, Lycra/spandex,
M
Maid, Maid Uniforms, Makeup, Making Home Movies, male authority, male submission, martial arts, Masks, Masochism, Massages, Master/Slave, Masturbation, Medical Play, Medieval Devices, Mental Bondage, metal, military, military interrogation, Military Uniforms, mind control, Mind Fucks, Mistress/slave, mistresses with strap-ons, mommy/boy dynamics, Mommy/girl, Monogamy, Multiple Orgasms, mummification, muscle worship, Muscles, music, Mutual Masturbation,
N
necks, Needle Play, Nipples, Nudity, Nun/Priest Play, NylonLegs & Feet, Nyotaimori,
O
Obedience Training, Objectification, Old Guard Slavery, older women, Online Play, Oral Sex, Orgasm Control, Orgasm Denial, Orgy, otk spanking, outdoor bondage, Outdoor sex,
P
Paddling, Pain, Panties, Panty-Sniffing, Pantyhose/Stockings, pegging, Percussion Play, Petplay, Petticoats, phone sex, Photography, Piercings, Piggy Play, pigtails, Pin-Ups, Pinching, Pirates, Play Piercing, Play Punishment, Play Rape, Podophilia, polyamory, Pony Play, Porn, Posture Collars, Power Exchange, Predator/prey, Predicament Bondage, Pressure points, pro domme, Prostate Massage, prostate milking, Protocol, Psycholagny, pubic hair, Public Humiliation, public play, punching, Puppy Play, Pursuit, Take-Down & Capture, pussy pumping, pussy worship, PVC,
Q
queening,
R
RANTS! We make stupid hurt!, Red Heads, Religious Play, Remote-Control Devices, Restraints, Retifism, Riding Crops, Rimming, Rituals, robots, Role Play, Rope Bondage/Suspension, rough sex, Rubber,
S
Sacred Sexuality, Sadism, Sadomasochism, sapiosexuality, Saran Wrap, Satin, Scarf bondage, Scarification, Scat Play, Scent, schoolgirl, schoolgirl uniform, Scratching, Seduction, Self-bondage, Sensation Play, Sensory Deprivation, sensual domination, sensual play, Sensual/slave dances, sensualism, Service, Service-oriented submission, sex, Sex During Menstruation, Sex In Public, sex in the cemetery, sex in videostore porn rooms, sex magick, Sex Online, sex with strangers, sexual objectification, sexual slavery, Shackles, shaving, Shemales, Shibari, shoes, Silk, Single Tail Whips, Sissification, sissy panties, sissy training, Sister/brother Roleplay, Skirts, Slapping, Slave Bells, slave tattoos, slavery, sleep, sleep assault, sleepsacks, sleepy sex, sluts, small penis humiliation, small tits, Smoking, smothering, snuggling, Socks, sounds, Spandex, Spanking, speculums, Speech restriction, spiritual bdsm, Spitting, Spreader Bars, Squirting, staples, Stockings, Strap-ons, submission, subspace, superheroes, suspension, Suspension Bondage, Swallowing, sweat, swinging, Switching, swords, sybian,
T
Taboo, Talking Dirty, Tantra, Tattoos, Teacher/Student, tearing off clothing, Tears, Teasing, Tens Unit, threesomes, Tickling, Tit Fucking, tit slapping, toes and feet, toilet, toilet slave, tongue sucking, Tongues, Total Power Exchange, Touching, TOY MAKING, Toys, Trampling, Transexual, transformation, Transgender, Transvestism, Triple Penetration,
U
Uncut Cock, Uniforms, Urethral Fucking, Urethral Sounds,
V
vacuum bed, Vacuum pumping, Vaginal Stretching, Vampires, Velvet, Verbal Humiliation and Degradation, Vibrators, Victorian Lifestyles, Victorian pornography, vintage lingerie, Vintage Porn, vinyl, Violence, violet wand, voice play, vomit, Voyeurism,
W
Wartenberg Pinwheels, water torture, Waterboarding, Waterbondage, Watersports, Wax, webcams, whipping, Whips, WolfPlay, Wrestling, Writing Erotica,
Z
Zentai,

Wow! After DLB's magnificent list what is left to say. Well, how about "tone it down?" Do you really suppose that couples go through the decades by ever increasing the intensity and variety of their sexual performance? Perhaps, but let me suggest that closeness and companionship are the lasting basis of any relationship. Relax, make love slowly and with intense attention to your partner. Talk, communicate your feelings, your desires AND your reaction to your partner's feelings and desires. Do not pursue the strange, but aim for the familiar closeness that can last.

If you go back and review the whole thread - the problem is NOT kinky ideas... the problem is SHE won't do fellatio any more because HE didn't orgasm from it in 5 minutes the last time she gave him fellatio.

COMMUNICATION is the problem - not whether he should break out the nibble-clamps and candle wax (soy or parrafin) or install a sex swing over the dining room table.

TALK WITH YOUR PARTNER

Yes, sometimes a man will orgasm because you acknowledged his existence and sometimes it takes a while when doing fellatio for a man to reach orgasm. Just how it is. Men are not machines "insert coin and pull lever to receive product". Not how humans work.

Next time, OP - ask the RIGHT question to get the CORRECT answer.